So like the title says, I f-closed my oneitis, who is my friend with benefits. I was her first. She really enjoyed it. My goal is to garner some feelings from her to lead into a relationship. I've just been taking it slow. We are hanging out just us two more and more. She came out drinking with me last night. and last sunday we spent the majority of the day together grabbing ice cream and watching movies.

My mentality is that I should just continue with this course. Treat her as if she is my girlfriend. Hang out, cuddle, watch movies and go out one on one. I hope to get her to grab sushi or some sort of exotic dinner with me. We have been talking about having wine at my place too.

I feel as if she is coming around. She's a great girl and the fact that she chose me to be her first is encouraging. I think that she is getting more feelings for me. Do you guys agree? Am I making the right moves?

We are going to the mall tomorrow to go shopping. Again, this is me treating her like a girlfriend and hanging out more often. I'm just not sure how to play body language and kino/k-close during outings like this.

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Hang out with her as you normally do, a bit more kino and teasing like she's your gf doesn't hurt. But you don't have to kiss her all the time. She's invested a lot into you so it would be fine to do all the things you're doing. At this point her choosing you to be a first means you're practically in, stay the course. Just don't over do it, you still have a life apart from her and in addition she needs to know that if you're not around you will be fine without her.

How do I deal with other women? Should I still sarge?

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Here's my update. It's been two weeks since I closed her and we have hung out constantly. Made out on several occasions. She came over tonight and we f closed again. I decided to take the opportunity to ask her to go to dinner and she immediately went on again about not wanting to ruin our friendship.

So I've decided to completely shut out any possibility of relationship out of my mind. I'm letting loose and going for other girls. I have a date lined up tomorrow with a girl I met and k closed at a bar. I'm no longer worrying what my oneitis thinks. I almost feel relieved to have final answer on the matter. I'm going to GFTOW and see how she feels when she finds out. We'll see if she gets jealous. I'll continue cashing in on benefits when my time is free but I'm not holding back. I'll fuck another girl the same night as her. I don't care anymore. If she can't appreciate me the way I appreciate her, then I'll treat her the same way.

Fuck feelings. Don't ever have them with a girl. We need to put those ideas out of our heads. Women are temporary. They always will be. Monogamy is unnatural. Go fuck ten other women is a mantra I picked up somewhere off here and it holds true. Women are interchangeable and there's always another to be had. Let them fawn over you and take advantage of their feelings. Oneitis is a plague to be avoided at all costs.

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