ok so is there anyway I can hit on the girls I know?, obviously they all know me and know the type of person I am seen as "the friend/nice guy/funny guy" and their view I me has been printed in them for years, is there any way I can change this and reverse it?, do I be persistent with them or completely ignore them all together, what I'm trying to get at is the fact it for me seems easier to hit on new girls because I can be my best self and work game on them as they know absolutely nothing about me and I come in totally under the radar which is fine, but what if I wanted to get these girls I already know into bed and on dates and possibly into relationships

You have a principle called "Commitment and Consistency" working against you at the moment. It's like you've dug out a pretty deep groove for a river of lame to pass through. (Source: Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini).

In order to overcome this, you'll need to use the principles from Maxwell Maltz's book Psycho-Cybernetics to overcome the self-image that you've established--both in your perception and hers. In other words, you need to adjust the specimen that's under the double microscope--with you as the first microscope and her as second.

Once you pick up a copy of that book (or just read it through Scribd in the link below), you can shoot me a PM for more advice on how to REALLY apply what he suggests (there's a way to speed up his process by at least 200%).

Let me know if this helps, Bro. You're amazing regardless of what's happened until now.

Your Bro,

Aaron.

(Here's the link: http://www.scribd.com/doc/24987697/Maxw ... ybernetics)

thanks for that bro, great advice

Only tell me that if you've applied it... and it worked! Lol