Men rely heavily on pick up lines. Imagine someone coming up to you and asking you some out of the blue question. One of the first things you'll probably do is look around for cameras and see if you're being Punk'd. Pick up lines are not for everyone. If you are able to recover after the pick up line and are only using it sparingly, then you could have some success. Hell, some people use the "Do you floss or brush first" line and I'm sure they got numbers right after. The problem is men are looking for that one magical line that's gonna have the girl screaming and opening her legs saying, "Come fuck me". Not gonna happen. I'm gonna tell you the importance of improvising.

Never be at a lost of words. The problem with meeting new people is the dreaded dead air. When you rely on magical words, pretty soon you're gonna run out of things to say. When you improvise you're not looking for magical words. You're looking to keep the conversation flowing. When a person can sit down and have an interesting conversation with you, this is more valuable than having thousands of pick up lines in your arsenal. Don't get addicted to lines.

You can start a conversation about anything. When you get in the habit of improvising your words, you'll be able to sound authentic and people love talking to authentic people. You don't want to sound like you sat in front of a mirror and practiced that one line the whole day. I'll tell you a personal story back in 2002. I was working at Applebee's as a busboy (they call them Service Assistants or S.As). You have two types of straws that you use for drinks. The virgin drinks (or drinks without alcohol) gets one type of straw, and the alcoholic drinks get another type of straw. This lets people know what kind of drink if they need when they do refills, I guess. Well, anyway I was telling one of the waitresses, or servers as they're called, to not poke the non-alcoholic drink with the straw too hard... it's a virgin. She got a little laugh and I actually didn't put much thought into that line. I improvised. If I was trying to pick this girl up, I would have had a nice icebreaker. You need to use the situation and your surroundings to break the ice. I learned this in depth from David Wygant.

You shoot from the hip. When a woman tries to use bitch tactics to test you, you can think on your feet and disarm her. If you learn how not to give a fuck, this makes you ferocious when it comes to disarming a bitch test. For example, if a girl is trying to give you rapid fire interrogation, you can easily disarm her. You're not flustered or confused because you are not too concerned about her questions. You know this is a test and you won't feed into her bullshit. For example:

Her: How many girls did you use that line on tonight, huh? Are you trying to make one of my friends part of your conquest? Are you trying to be this big player or something?
You: You're funny, you remind me of somebody's mother... 'You know, baby, men are after one thing' (using an old southern woman's voice).
Her: Well, I saw you talking to every girl in this place, so you must be after one thing.
You: And I bet you're angry because you want that one thing from me and now your friend beat you to the punch. Ask her, maybe she doesn't mind sharing.
Her: (Mouth open) You're a dog.
You: woof woof. (give her a wink and a smile)

In this scenario, it's all about being confident to know that the outcome isn't important. Her friend may think you're being a dick to her friend and leave. It could go the complete opposite. Her friend may be sitting there giggling and want to see how much of a "dog" you really are. I know that example is corny but you get the idea. The bitch test doesn't phase you because you are above that. As a matter of fact you're not afraid of fucking it up with her friend because you know that women love your sense of humor and not-give-a-fuck attitude. She's only one girl and you have hundreds of other new options each day.

So the moral of this story boys and girls is don't expect fireworks off of pick up lines. A man who can improvise shows he has a quick wit, something charismatic men have that attracts people towards him. He's able to make the guys think he's the coolest shit that walked on the scene. He as the women giving him those "fuck me" eyes that a lot of us men don't pick up on.

Fuck the pick up lines and improvise. You'll be surprised how much a woman's legs opens once she knows she's with a man who has the confidence to say what he wants.

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