Hi all,

There is one girl in my college with which I also have some classes.
We've been chatting for well over a month and I know she likes me a lot.
However we never had a chance to make-out (a long story)...

She always showed big interest in me, but several days ago she started acting
like she isn't interested anymore. She doesn't text me first at all anymore and
shows much lower interest in me (like I'm nobody important).


My question is should I push like her as well?
As well, will hanging out with other girls be a good strategy?

I should mention that I think she knows I like her as well (I showed interest also in her).


Thanks for suggestions

Update: Just saw the girl outside my Block(Its a uni campus) flirting with her ex-boyfriend. Then she gave him a few kisses... Seems they got something going on between them but its not official...

What the hell to do now?

I'm angry because I'm better than that guy like 10x (not trying to be narcissist but its true)

Hectic.

I wouldn't text her I would go no contact. if she is interested in you she will text you. I would play that whole ex boy-friend crap and joke around about it. Don't bring up the ex boy-friend let her bring it up and say something along the lines of he can entertain you when you are not with me. Banter a little bit with her.

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Haven't made your move? She probably thinks you're not interested already, so it's not the time to lose your head. It's time to pull, and by that I mean start flirting with her HARD, so she KNOWS you two could possibly get together(With some work on her part of course). Pull her until you've got her interested a little bit again then you push her away a bit so she can chase after you for a little while. Then you just continue Push-Pull, making sure you Pull harder than you push more and more. You'll look like more of a fun challenge than her Ex will, and if you truly are better than the guy then the choice should be obvious to her.

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had a similar situation with an HB i had been slow playing for a while. if it's gone from good to bad to worse, you're probably already on the way out. either you didn't pull the trigger at the right moment, or something you said/did turned her off. who knows, but it's not worth losing your head over. in my situation i telegraphed my interest too early and it pushed her away. best thing you can do is be as nonchalant as possible and make her think it's you that's lost interest in her, not the other way around. and if it's already dead, don't beat it to death, you can always try to swoop her friends.