Hey guys (and gals),

I'm a female dating and relationship mentor for Optimacy.

I'm aware of several of the PUA's referenced on this site and can endorse a lot of what they say.

However, I won't be bashful in pointing out an alternative points-of-view, when applicable.

Hopefully, my female perspective will be welcome here. This seems like a well run forum with lots of interchange, so I'm excited to be here and share.

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I have no idea why you wouldn't be welcome. We are here for information about girls so it should be a no brainer. If you have concerns or want to know how you can help don't be shy about contacting a moderator. They seem to be genuinely interested in helping the people on these forums.

Welcome !

Nice neg / reframe man . I lmao how natural that was. Now I'm alpha mogging you. Lets all show off our skills to the lady. lol. For real though I laughed at how pro that message was. Pure genius.

My response was very natural, but the tone in my head doesn't come across very well in a bare print forum. There was a bit of concern that there may have been some negative experiences for her in similar situations. I have seen females posting in other threads on this forum and they always have good info, so I was trying to be encouraging and suggest options.

Maybe it's just my experience, but most of the females I've seen posting here have been abusive or just here to promote themselves. But if the OP is here to help, then she's welcome.

If your experience is that FEMALES are abusive on forums/social networking, you should see the chat messages and emails I get on Google+. I don't even use Facebook anymore because it is so bad.

Being a bit older, I'm pretty sure my perspective will be helpful here. Lots of the techniques (like the one earlier in this thread) that you guys pat yourselves on the back about, work best with young, inexperienced, women.

If you are in your early 20s now...trust me...you will look back on these days and think how foolish, immature, gullible, etc you were in certain situations. You will also realize that your "game" has to evolve as you age and play with members of the opposite sex who are much more mature, savvy, and wiser than you are dealing with now.

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Sex is like air...It isn't important unless you aren't getting any.

http://optimacy.org

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Welcome. I'm going to pm you about your signature. It's interesting and gets me thinking.

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I subdue the earth with my feet, steady and yet thunderous.

I lift the entire world upon my back with my own strength and determination. Who are you to tell me who or what I can be?

in field having a wing woman is more effective than a wing man. so in turn having a woman in the forum as a helpful coach could prove to be more useful than men you are more than welcome here

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any man can sweep any woman off her feet. just need the right broom

Annnnnnnd she's gone forever.

Guys,

Females perspective and advice is always dangerous. They never tell the truth ... they subconciously defend their gender. And even when they bash their gender .. its always bad advice and tell men to not give up manhood, and respect and bulshit. I think men's advice and sharing is what PUA's have built upon, and lets not be weak to some random chick that wants to give free advice.. may not be the best thing for us. Just saying

It's pretty obvious why you need help and joined a PUA forum.

Unfortunately...unlike most guys interested in learning and absorbing input from various sources...you have some deep seated anger/resentment toward women that causes you to stereotype them and feel threatened.

Are you seriously incapable of evaluating the content and quality of my advice/posts irrespective of my gender???

Maybe I can point out the sheer folly of your post by re-writing something similarly absurd, but from the reverse perspective.

What would you think about the mental health of a girl who writes the following about YOU....

" Gals,

Male perspective and advice is always dangerous. They never tell the truth ... they subconciously defend their gender. And even when they bash their gender .. its always bad advice and bullshit. Let's not be weak and allow phatkickr give his perspective.. may not be the best thing for us. Just saying"

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Sex is like air...It isn't important unless you aren't getting any.

http://optimacy.org

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I for one would love feedback from a woman. Part of this is learning how to make women happy, and satisfied.

Ohhhhh Phatkickr just got BURNED.

Love it.

I'd never full out tell my sister about being a PUA, and I never have revealed that I wanted advice from her because of what I was actually going to do with her advice, but in the past she has given me a few pointers about females that have sometimes been far superior than any male advice I've gained. After all, if men can't understand women... then surely a woman is more likely to understand women right?

Glad to have you here Optimacy. I'll be following your advice/viewpoints with a keen eye.

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If You Want To Pick Up A Girl,

Keep Your Back Straight And Lift With Your Knees.

Being a bit older myself, I agree with this 100%.