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PostPosted: Thu Apr 25, 2013 12:43 pm 
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Never understood the desire to play the role of a prissy chick. What's the goal again? . . . Obviously, she nor her friends will be laughing at the 'yo mama' thing so they're out of the picture. Is the hope that an innocent bystander will appreciate your aptitude for the gay dude style snap the finger, shake the head come back? Kids. . . it doesn't matter 'who started it', acting like a prissy chick usually doesn't get you far in PU.

The girl who got whisked away was pretty polite at first. "We'll come find you later," regardless of whether it was sarcastic or not takes some energy to put together. Sure, she's taking off but it also leaves her room to tell you later, "I told you I'd come back to find you. . ." A girl with no interest will just turn around and fuck off. "We're leaving" is also another typical fuck off . . . but "We'll come find you later," to me any ways, sounds like a decent attitude. The only prick of that group was the cock block. . . but usually, that type of attitude comes from an inferiority complex, not a superiority complex. . .

I think this is one of those personality things. Some people can do it. Others cannot. . .but % wise, it's always better to go with a self-mocking joke than to bounce a bitchy line back to them. . . and you already saw what that got you. Something obviously corny like, "Do what you gotta do baby. I'll be here all night. Waiting. . . you . . . me . . . all night. . . and her (pointing at some random girl) she'll be waiting for you with me." - Then you start opening the next girl, the next, and the next girl again. . . and who knows, maybe this girl would have found a way to ditch the cock block to "find you later".

*Openers aren't the most important things in PU but cliche's are always awful. . . Hey, you'd roll your eyes and shake your head too if you heard that line for the 5th time in 30 minutes. "Are you ladies having a good night?" "You come here often?" What's a girl like you doing in a place like this?" "How you doin?" "Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?" "What's you sign baby?" "If I told you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?" "Where have you been all my life?"

^These things only offer comedic value as an opener if you act like an idiot and rattle off a few, all in a row.
You've got a point... I guess instinctively after taking a bit of a rejection a lot of us tend to think of funny come-backs to save face and entertain our friends... But as you said, that's not PU

I also completely agree that the girl he opened seemed receptive in saying "i'll come find you later"... it was clearly her jealous friend who has the problem... and again i agree that this is probably from an inferiority complex

Perhaps leaving the set then having a wing approach her "bobble head" friend at some point may have been an idea? I also think opening other chicks would have been a good idea if only to build your social proof when she sees you and thinks "hey other girls want to talk to him... but he spoke to me first!"


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The problem is you, not the girls. She wasn't rude to you until you were rude to her first. Because of your own insecurity, you took something she said that was NOT rude and said "No thanks. Don't bother." THAT was rude.

And if this is the worst you have ever been rejected, then you need to approach more, because believe me, you will get worse rejections than that from time to time (especially while you're beginning.) And there is generally no use in having cool comebacks to girls who are rude to you, just walk away and talk to another set. If you want you can just point out the fact that she's being rude and then just stack forward. If the girl keeps being rude, then go and talk to some girls who might actually fuck you. No point in wasting your time with bitchy people.

And even if the girls were stuck up and rude to you, don't assume that all the girls in the venue are going to be stuck up. That type of thinking does not help you at all. I've gotten blown out HARD and then immediately walked over to another set and ended up fucking a girl from the set in her car in the parking lot across the street from the bar. No point in letting one set ruin your night.

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If you want you can just point out the fact that she's being rude and then just stack forward.
Perhaps maybe say "why are you being so rude? You're from [insert town to joke about here] aren't you?" to try and push forward with a little neg about the town she's from... if you get the town wrong you could then say "They're even worse!"... maybe a light neg would bring her down from her pedestal.


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If you want you can just point out the fact that she's being rude and then just stack forward.
Perhaps maybe say "why are you being so rude? You're from [insert town to joke about here] aren't you?" to try and push forward with a little neg about the town she's from... if you get the town wrong you could then say "They're even worse!"... maybe a light neg would bring her down from her pedestal.
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^ lol.

I'm no mPUA but my guess on your situation would have been to just be polite, smile and say something simple like "great see you later!" Then on to the next. If you bump into her later you could give it one more go with some where's Waldo humor or something. Game whichever friend pulled the target away and then the target herself after.

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If you want you can just point out the fact that she's being rude and then just stack forward.
Perhaps maybe say "why are you being so rude? You're from [insert town to joke about here] aren't you?" to try and push forward with a little neg about the town she's from... if you get the town wrong you could then say "They're even worse!"... maybe a light neg would bring her down from her pedestal.
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"sorry, we'll come find you later." That's the key phrase. From what you've told us I'm guessing something had happened to one of the girls like seeing a recent ex who dumped her with another girl and it was a really bad time to approach. The friend was being polite to you, you're reply should have been "that's ok ladies I understand, have a good night" said with a knowing nod.


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"sorry, we'll come find you later." That's the key phrase. From what you've told us I'm guessing something had happened to one of the girls like seeing a recent ex who dumped her with another girl and it was a really bad time to approach. The friend was being polite to you, you're reply should have been "that's ok ladies I understand, have a good night" said with a knowing nod.
It also could be a clever way to fend off guys.

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"sorry, we'll come find you later." That's the key phrase. From what you've told us I'm guessing something had happened to one of the girls like seeing a recent ex who dumped her with another girl and it was a really bad time to approach. The friend was being polite to you, you're reply should have been "that's ok ladies I understand, have a good night" said with a knowing nod.
It also could be a clever way to fend off guys.

That's true we would have to calibrate on the spot but I have a gut feeling based on the terminology that something was up. If it was a clever way to fend off then the response works too as it sets the frame that you withdrew your interest due to a decision on your part not one dictated by the girls.


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"sorry, we'll come find you later." That's the key phrase. From what you've told us I'm guessing something had happened to one of the girls like seeing a recent ex who dumped her with another girl and it was a really bad time to approach. The friend was being polite to you, you're reply should have been "that's ok ladies I understand, have a good night" said with a knowing nod.
It also could be a clever way to fend off guys.

That's true we would have to calibrate on the spot but I have a gut feeling based on the terminology that something was up. If it was a clever way to fend off then the response works too as it sets the frame that you withdrew your interest due to a decision on your part not one dictated by the girls.
Either way you have to be polite. You're right. Never lose your cool. Thats one of the 48 laws of power, I believe, albeit in different context. Lots of guys call girls a bitch and get hot headed. The one who handles a rejection very well is unique. Taking a rejection like a champ helps DHV.

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Either way you have to be polite. You're right. Never lose your cool. Thats one of the 48 laws of power, I believe, albeit in different context. Lots of guys call girls a bitch and get hot headed. The one who handles a rejection very well is unique. Taking a rejection like a champ helps DHV.
Haha it's almost like you consider a rejection as a shit test, which isn't a bad way to think and would help your inner confidence in those situations i guess


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Either way you have to be polite. You're right. Never lose your cool. Thats one of the 48 laws of power, I believe, albeit in different context. Lots of guys call girls a bitch and get hot headed. The one who handles a rejection very well is unique. Taking a rejection like a champ helps DHV.
Haha it's almost like you consider a rejection as a shit test, which isn't a bad way to think and would help your inner confidence in those situations i guess
The girls who reject you are just afraid and unaware of what they really want. They don't want to give you the chance then that's their loss. Can't help those who can't help themselves.

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Either way you have to be polite. You're right. Never lose your cool. Thats one of the 48 laws of power, I believe, albeit in different context. Lots of guys call girls a bitch and get hot headed. The one who handles a rejection very well is unique. Taking a rejection like a champ helps DHV.
Haha it's almost like you consider a rejection as a shit test, which isn't a bad way to think and would help your inner confidence in those situations i guess
The girls who reject you are just afraid and unaware of what they really want. They don't want to give you the chance then that's their loss. Can't help those who can't help themselves.
ye mate, you're the prize... if they don't want to be in the running there are plenty of girls who do


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This isn't a summit meeting of super powers, deciding how to best carve out and divvy up the resources of a third World Country. There is no pedestal, prize, winners, or losers. Regardless of whether it's a business deal or a marriage proposal, to be 'rejected', there has to be an 'offer'; the OP offered the ladies a cliche', followed by sharing a dark secret that he is an angry 14 year old girl in disguise.

Stop reading e-pick up-pamphlets of 20 year old virgins who fantasize and write about pick up between rounds of Minecraft and Angry Birds. Simplify: Focus on Opening the ladies, sparking some interest, and creating connections. It's really not that difficult.


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