Where to begin?? I meet up with my childhood gf after not seeing her for 15 years. I pick her up without realising she is my ex but she remembers me and has wanted me her whole life. I end up very much enjoying her loyalty. She moves in with me. I play hypnotic language for myself when I sleep at night and she is exposed to this self help/ relaxation type hypno technology. We think nothing of it at that point. Then one day I come into the realization that I have been hypnotized to become a hypnotist. I suddenly am a languaging MACHINE. I'm so excited with my new found skills I start experimenting. My gf is the guiney pig. I was 100% successfull in every pattern or session with the exception that I couldn't get her to quit cigarettes. I'm trying to get to the point quickly.
Then we start delving into her fantasies. Setting triggers ect. I even used languaging patterns to give her her first orgasm of her life. She is 31, investor, denier, idealist for those that know pandora's box.(new guys could learn from me the odd times I come to the forums)
Anyway I get excited about my new skills and begin pushing her own fantacies. I begin coaxing her fantasies out of her and begin linking them to me in the sense that I say, imagine you are getting tag teamed by me and my friend. My friend actually shows up and she chickens out. Then later admits that she regrets chickening out of her fantacy. So I get the bright idea of saying that I will hypnotize her into doing it. So we both agreed to a hypnotic session where I would hypnotize her to sleep with other people but always come back to me. I know, very very very stupid.
I don't even remember the pattern. I did my usual routine to get her into full trance, like total black out where she doesn't remember what happened. Then I said something along the lines of
"I want you to bring your attention to your amazing bf who makes you feel good" blah blah.. "He is making you feel incredibly horny right now" ect. Then I said: "You will sleep with [my friends name] but you will always come back to me because I make you feel so good. You will sleep with other people but you will always come back to your best friend, your childhood boyfriend. Your amazing wonderful inteligent ect ect boyfriend." She mentioned before she couldn't sleep without me so I added. "You can't sleep without thinking of him" I did some repeats then I'm sure at some point for safe measure, probably right at the end I said: "You will always come back to [my real name]" I think at some point I also said, "When you sleep with another person it will make you think of how cool and how awesome your boyfriend is for allowing you to experience this pleasure.
I wake her out of the trance and she goes on about how awesome I am and starts using all the same language as if it were her own words and the feelings were definately directed towards me. About a week later I catch her texting my best friend, and I am convinced that it's the hypnotizm. She denies it (she's a denier

) but I manage to get her to admit durring sex that she wants to get tag teamed by him and I. This is all expected, consentual and was the intended result I had expected. For me to have an open type relationship and I remain her boyfriend. She asked if I was jealous and I said: "no, because I hypnotized you to always come back"
Then she plans for herself a trip to another city and I start to think that the reason she is going is to sleep with a guy because I start thinking back to the hypnotism. Now, I did agree for her to sleep around so I just let her go. Then a few days later this convo
Her:
I think we need to talk
Me:
why what's up?
I already know you're breaking up with me. I'm a smart fellow.
I don't know why but... sigh....
I thought it would work out between us because we're such good friends
ouch
lol
I just put the new toilet in and have to go soon to fix it mor
Her:
how did you know was gonna say a break gonna move in with my aunt and will find a way to get my stuff I will always love and care for you but you seem only sweet on fb and when you text me sometimes you make me feel so sad
are you gonna answer me back
Me:
If I knew what to say to keep you... I would. But I don't. I end up just making a fool of myself because I'm such a loyal bf that I don't like letting go.
Her:
ok whatever you can be so mean sometimes can we talk later got to go
Me:
I want to keep my wife
Her:
I want that to omg so hard I will mess. you later and I do love you
Me:
I don't care if you want to see other people or live somewhere else, I just want to keep my best friend of so many years. I will comprimise. I can stand on my own, but very much love laughing with you until I cry. You're awesome.
Her:
do you even love and care for me
[time delay]
Her:
can you at least answer that question plee
Me:
very much so was what I typed. My internet is cutting in and out
Please stay, you are the only woman who can handle a wild bull like me lol
Her:
prove it lol we can make it work
Me:
Normally I'm a player but I will for you.
Her:
k gotta go so sorry we will talk more
mess. me a lot what to make it work il check later
Me:
Ya I have to go too. Just don't worry about it. Enjoy yourself. As far as I am conscerned you are my best friend. I'll think about what I can say. ttyl
Her:
I want more then friends you know how I feel bout you better be an awesome mess. later
Me:
I'm sure things will work out one way or another. Destiny already made sure of that twice.
gtg ttyl pce<3
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I know that was terrible on my part, I was really caught off guard because this is a girl who was obsessed with me 5 days earlier. Plus at the moment I figured she just wanted the break so she could bang some guy and not feel like she is cheating. I figure just let her go. and she will come back.
Then I discover she is with a guy and I message her saying she should go for it, then I send a flurry of stupid texts and realize I can't let her see it. I hack into her facebook and delete the messages. I see in her inbox that she talking shit about me. Calling me a dumbass. She was trying to get her cousin to hit on me and see if I would cheat.
Further investigation leads to a shocking discovery, this guy is her childhood boyfriend and is friends with her best friend. It seems she picked up on those words in the pattern and is now in love with this guy. I mean this girl is HIGHLY suggestable, so much so that I almost think that she is going to come back to me like I suggested, but also will keep going back to the other guy. I don't really know. I do know that she has some triggers set that perhaps shouldn't be there if she is not coming back lol. Everytime the guy touches one of her erroginous zones she is going to think of me and my best friend feeding it to her. lmao. Or would this have all warn off in 2 weeks since the session?
I'm now in the situation where days have gone by and she 1. can't get on her facebook because I have the new password. I know, epic failure lol. 2. She is missing in action, her family is worried about her. I'm assuming she is having the time of her life with this guy.
I put a post on her wall saying that we were both hacked (someone had hacked me just recently) I posted that I had access to her account and she should call me and I would give her the password. I'm such a liar lol. She probably assumes I did hack her as she knows I am very skilled with computers.
So I am just sitting here with her listed as in a relationship with me, when I have reason to suspect that she has a new boyfriend. This is a mess and a half I have gotten myself into.
