ok so I'm new to using pua forums and dont know many terms yet.

So I went out saturday night with the boys, my memory is a little hazy. I seen a girl (8.5) as she left the club caught up with her out side and told her I seen her leaving and that I thought she was amazing and a had to introduce myself.

I cant remember exactly what else was said but while we were speaking but there was some loser guy yelling out insults to me about my approaching her and about what i was wearing. The girl said to me do you want to make him jealous, I said yes and she started making out with me. I got her number and told her that i think she made my night she replied saying that i made hers. we said our good byes and went our separate ways..

So Im wonder if that kiss meant anything and when should I message her. Thanks!

Saturday to now is a fairly decent amount to wait so shoot her a text tomorrow saying something like "it seems i owe you one from saturday so if you ever need to make someone jealous yourself, i'm sure i can return the favour x"

Or without the smiley, I know some people don't really like them.

damn that was a good one, I ended up texting her yesterday. Heres the convo so far:

me: Hey Lucy. Its Patrick. It was pretty mean of you to make the poor guy so jealous the other night haha. I will admit I did like it though

her: Hey you, he was being a smart arse so hey...why not how did you pull up?

me: I dont really remember what he was saying but i thought it was pretty funny. We ended up leaving at about 4 30 lol sunday was a long day. You girls went home pretty early.

her: neither do I...he was just being an ass full stop we left at 3 am which is a pretty good effort? I didnt realise the place was open until 430?? I was up early sunday for a breaky BBQ and hung out. Looking forward to tomorrow!

me: I dont understand the mentality of some people in (city I live) its like they are on a different planet lol so how many other guys did you kiss that night

her: just you lol

me: hmm. You also told me I was the first guy to tell you that you looked sexy. I don't know if i can believe you lol

her: Believe it or not I was being 100% honest

me: Well it seems I owe you one. If you ever need to make some one jealous, im sure I can return the favor x

her: Your an angel. I didnt actually think you would text me... I wasnt sure how drunk you were


v.y.b.e I think your line made her melt a little bit haha

So im going to cut it off there for a few days then organise for her to come get sushi with me.

Am I on the right track here?

Noo, ofcourse you have to be genuine, but throw a little more tease in your text game. Also listen to her, she said can't wait for tomorrow, say whatsup tomorrow? Stop asking her what she thinks of you, assume you were the only one without asking. Also I myself wouldn't cut it when its going good, however I know others will to create mystery or something.

ha glad i could help
I completely agree here, you want to see how each text will make you come across. by asking it makes it seem as if you care; which you do, but shouldn't. it doesn't bother you because you have enough girls going on in your life that there's no reason to care - thats the vibe you want to be sending across.

the fact that she said that she didnt think you'd text shows that she has been thinking of you and that she's clearly interested. personally, this is where id part ways with Wizzay, I dont like asking too many questions back and forth over text - instant messaging like facebook is different as it has more of a flow of conversation but id try dropping her something short and sweet over text about meeting up.

"ha, you haven't seen my dark side im thinking of grabbing some sushi this week, you should come - i know a great place x"

or throw in something slightly fun at the end if you want

I was actually trying to tease her here by suggesting she is promiscuous, but yea I can see how it could come across and yea im going for mysterious it usually works best for me because Im a bit quiet when Im not drinking.

Im also trying to keep my text game to a minimum and just organise the meet up asap.

So ill be texting her tonight something along the lines of what v.y.b.e said and organise it for tomorrow (friday).

v.y.b.e you are full of good lines haha

Text game update. Its going swimmingly

me: Hey Lucy. Its Patrick. It was pretty mean of you to make the poor guy so jealous the other night haha. I will admit I did like it though

her: Hey you, he was being a smart arse so hey...why not how did you pull up?

me: I dont really remember what he was saying but i thought it was pretty funny. We ended up leaving at about 4 30 lol sunday was a long day. You girls went home pretty early.

her: neither do I...he was just being an ass full stop we left at 3 am which is a pretty good effort? I didnt realise the place was open until 430?? I was up early sunday for a breaky BBQ and hung out. Looking forward to tomorrow!

me: I dont understand the mentality of some people in (city I live) its like they are on a different planet lol so how many other guys did you kiss that night

her: just you lol

me: hmm. You also told me I was the first guy to tell you that you looked sexy. I don't know if i can believe you lol

her: Believe it or not I was being 100% honest

me: Well it seems I owe you one. If you ever need to make some one jealous, im sure I can return the favor x

her: Your an angel. I didnt actually think you would text me... I wasnt sure how drunk you were

me:ha, you havent seen my dark side im thinking about getting sushi on saturday before i meet up with my friends, you should come. There is a dish there that is orgasmic x

her: Orgasmic? well... when described like that how could i resist?? what time on saturday are we talking?

me: yes orgasmic. hopefully your not a screamer it could be a bit embarrassing in the sushi shop lol. around 4 to 6

her: Depends how good it is;) which sushi?

me: trust me its good. If you dont like it I will make it up to you . Yuki sushi on east st

her: its a deal. x


What do you think? and how do I sort out all the details of what time we are to meet how shes getting there and were we are meeting etc.?

nice lines!
to put plans fully in place id call her, it shows you've got confidence and is a lot more personal than texting you could text her something short and sweet saying that you'll call her later/whenever to sort out the details, nice way of making her look forward to you calling as well which is always exciting from a new fling :p

when you do call, dont ask any questions like "so are you still free tonight?"- assume she is!

and go easy on the wasabi!

haha ok cheers bro. Ill let you know how it goes