Thanks guys for reading this hopefully you can help me.

I've been with my girlfriend for a year now, things were great in the beginning, but lately it was starting to become boring.. We see eachother twice a week and once in the week we have sex. I think she is becoming less attracted to me.

Lately we barely talk to eachother and if we talk, it is really boring talk, how her day was and mine etc... If we see eachother we still have great fun conversations, but, she barely shows affections, no hugs no kisses.

So, I was kinda sick of it and wanted to end it, but I'm still really in love with her, so I decided to take a break of 2 weeks, no contact! Is this a good decision? She said she was going to miss me and she started to cry..

What is your opinion? Can a break help? I should not initiate contact right? And what if she does? I really miss her now, fuck.

Thinking about initiating contact after 4 days ! Sort of soft next then.. right?

Should I do this? Just saying hi then.

Come on guys really need help !! What should I do..

The break thing is bad. You should only use a soft next to curb bad behavior. How is she behaving badly in this situation? In short, you aren't leading well. Also, why don't you have things to talk about? You should be out socializing with your friends and doing fun things during the week. This part is really important to maintaining a long-term relationship. Basically, it's your job to keep things from getting boring and you're failing at it.

Instead of seeing her less, you should plan cool activities for you to do when you DO see her. Also, make a point to do fun things when she's not there so you have stuff to talk about. Build an active social life. Have sex more often.. make it more interesting. Figure out what her fantasies are and help make them happen. Etc. Buy some sex toys and use them.

Just my 2 cents.

-Wolf

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Wolf is exactly right. Develop your life outside of your relationship. No woman wants a man whose life is their relationship. Get out, and pursue some goals; better yourself. Demonstrate to her that you are an interesting and driven man who can come up with creative ideas for dates.

Sex is vital to a healthy relationship, and unfortunately it can become routine...fast. It's your job to keep things interesting. When Wolf says find out about her fantasies, he's right again. A woman will tell you her fantasies if you know how to turn her on. Tease her, mercilessly; turn on her mind as well as her body. Make sex an incredible experience for her. That should help breathe new life into the relationship.