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 Post subject: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 5:42 pm 
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Alright guys, after a little general advice here... I never game in the day... I would love to but I'm a complete beginner... But I would like to start! Ok so first I'd like to tackle some street approaches... now I've seen those newbie challenges and one is to go say hi to people... which i think is a great one to get people started...

So I'm walking down the street, first thing i should do is look right at the person for eye contact? they barely ever look... or glimpse then look away... Now what would you guys suggest doing...
Option A: Say hi and wait for her to look at you confused as to where she knows you from
Option B: accidentally almost walk into her
Option C: tell her not to carry on walking in that direction... there has just been a crash and the road is blocked off
Option D: almost anything else that might actually work...

Considered asking for directions... but then don't know how to continue after I've been told

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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 10:10 pm 
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Saying hi when she is approx 7 feet away, so there is time to react. Then start with the opener as soon you got her attention.
If she doesn't stop, then I try to get in front of her and show her more signs to stop.

Another way is to let her walk by, them turn around and open her from behind. They are much more willing to stop when you are approaching from behind.


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 10:51 pm 
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Saying hi when she is approx 7 feet away, so there is time to react. Then start with the opener as soon you got her attention.
If she doesn't stop, then I try to get in front of her and show her more signs to stop.

Another way is to let her walk by, them turn around and open her from behind. They are much more willing to stop when you are approaching from behind.
ok they're both good tips... so i say "hey", then go direct? can't think of any other reason to stop her except for directions or "was you at... last night" etc...


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 11:10 pm 
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Never approach from behind in the day.

NEVER.

First off, it's generally regarded as creepy to talk to strangers. If you approach from behind, what's your first impression?

That's right, the creepy guy that came up from behind and scared the shit out of her.

Always approach from the front. If she's in front of you, walk past her and open over your shoulder, like you just noticed her. This way it's completely non-threatening which is what were going for. You're not in a club so if you're going to be social you need to act like it was spontaneous and just happened out of the blue, that's what day-game amounts to.

As for your question, just start saying hi. Eye contact is preferable but as long as they can hear you just blurt it out. It won't hurt you.

By the 5th person, you won't even care anymore. Trust me, instead of caring whether or not YOU can do it, you'll probably be curious to see if they say hi back or not.

Just focus on saying 'hi' for now. Then you can move on to opening direct. Small victories, bro.

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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Wed Apr 24, 2013 10:17 am 
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Never approach from behind in the day.

NEVER.

First off, it's generally regarded as creepy to talk to strangers. If you approach from behind, what's your first impression?

That's right, the creepy guy that came up from behind and scared the shit out of her.

Always approach from the front. If she's in front of you, walk past her and open over your shoulder, like you just noticed her. This way it's completely non-threatening which is what were going for. You're not in a club so if you're going to be social you need to act like it was spontaneous and just happened out of the blue, that's what day-game amounts to.

As for your question, just start saying hi. Eye contact is preferable but as long as they can hear you just blurt it out. It won't hurt you.

By the 5th person, you won't even care anymore. Trust me, instead of caring whether or not YOU can do it, you'll probably be curious to see if they say hi back or not.

Just focus on saying 'hi' for now. Then you can move on to opening direct. Small victories, bro.
OK that's some good advice, i'll forget about taking it further for now, i'll just blurt out hi and see what reaction i get. Looking forward to doing this, i'll just wait for a time when i have to go some place on my own and open girls on my journey... might even open girls i'm not attracted to just to build that confidence you know?


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Wed Apr 24, 2013 5:10 pm 
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You could just say 'Hi, you're going to be completely creeped out by this but do you mind if I walk with you for a bit because you're really beautiful and you seem like you'd be a nice person to talk too.' Then she's going to be like 'what the fuck, what is happening right now' - But just keep walking and stay cool and just be friendly and do small talk

Or I came up with this a few days ago. If a girl is acting like she is busy, I say 'Ok, just give me 30 seconds of your time' - I haven't had any girl say no to it yet and one was actually like 'Ok, I'm timing you' with a playful little smile lol - you can easily get a number close in 30 seconds. And obviously once you start talking, you can get past the 30 second mark without them knowing or walking away from you because who's counting?


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Wed Apr 24, 2013 6:01 pm 
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You could just say 'Hi, you're going to be completely creeped out by this but do you mind if I walk with you for a bit because you're really beautiful and you seem like you'd be a nice person to talk too.' Then she's going to be like 'what the fuck, what is happening right now' - But just keep walking and stay cool and just be friendly and do small talk

Or I came up with this a few days ago. If a girl is acting like she is busy, I say 'Ok, just give me 30 seconds of your time' - I haven't had any girl say no to it yet and one was actually like 'Ok, I'm timing you' with a playful little smile lol - you can easily get a number close in 30 seconds. And obviously once you start talking, you can get past the 30 second mark without them knowing or walking away from you because who's counting?
hey those are good ideas... i think i'll start with saying hi to people, just to build that confidence... then i'll level up and try that "let me walk with you thing". That last thing saying "just give me 30 seconds of your time" sounds like something i could use in a lot of my game when the chick wants to wonder off... also sounds like something a salesman would say to me haha.


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Wed Apr 24, 2013 7:40 pm 
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NO. The last thing you want to be is thought of trying to sell her something or survey her or ANY of that. Also asking her permission to do anything is a bad idea mate, women hate that! It shows her you're not a man who's confident in himself and needs to beg his way through life. You are the man, you are the leader.

That said, you're really overthinking it and you're going to make yourself crash and burn. Just focus on saying Hi to everyone on the street, then come back and tell us how THAT felt. If you really MUST have a next step, after opening her (With a 'hi', a situational opener, or pretty much anything to catch her interest and get her talking to you), just introduce yourself and ask what she's up to today. Engage in real conversation.

If she's too busy to talk, let her go. Don't chase, don't waste your time. Personally whenever a girl is too busy to talk to me on the street I always smile and say this to myself:

"Oh well, She had a nice face, Her ass was in place, But Danny don't chase"

Always makes me chuckle and remember that she's not worth my precious time anyhow...

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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Wed Apr 24, 2013 8:01 pm 
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NO. The last thing you want to be is thought of trying to sell her something or survey her or ANY of that. Also asking her permission to do anything is a bad idea mate, women hate that! It shows her you're not a man who's confident in himself and needs to beg his way through life. You are the man, you are the leader.

That said, you're really overthinking it and you're going to make yourself crash and burn. Just focus on saying Hi to everyone on the street, then come back and tell us how THAT felt. If you really MUST have a next step, after opening her (With a 'hi', a situational opener, or pretty much anything to catch her interest and get her talking to you), just introduce yourself and ask what she's up to today. Engage in real conversation.

If she's too busy to talk, let her go. Don't chase, don't waste your time. Personally whenever a girl is too busy to talk to me on the street I always smile and say this to myself:

"Oh well, She had a nice face, Her ass was in place, But Danny don't chase"

Always makes me chuckle and remember that she's not worth my precious time anyhow...
ok sweet, i feel most confident with situational openers anyway... i need to just generally work on all aspects of my day game, but i'll start with this "saying hi to everyone" thing


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Wed Apr 24, 2013 10:02 pm 
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NO. The last thing you want to be is thought of trying to sell her something or survey her or ANY of that. Also asking her permission to do anything is a bad idea mate, women hate that! It shows her you're not a man who's confident in himself and needs to beg his way through life. You are the man, you are the leader.

That said, you're really overthinking it and you're going to make yourself crash and burn. Just focus on saying Hi to everyone on the street, then come back and tell us how THAT felt. If you really MUST have a next step, after opening her (With a 'hi', a situational opener, or pretty much anything to catch her interest and get her talking to you), just introduce yourself and ask what she's up to today. Engage in real conversation.

If she's too busy to talk, let her go. Don't chase, don't waste your time. Personally whenever a girl is too busy to talk to me on the street I always smile and say this to myself:

"Oh well, She had a nice face, Her ass was in place, But Danny don't chase"

Always makes me chuckle and remember that she's not worth my precious time anyhow...
Well , it's not going to kill you or her if you DO creep her out a bit by gaining the experience by simply walking up and saying what I mentioned. The best way for me to break my anxiety was just to go up to absolute bombshells and just say 'I'm not hitting on you, I just made the commitment to tell every beautiful woman I see that they are beautiful just so I can break my anxiety approaching beautiful women' - And so they'd be all sweet and say 'Wow, more good men need to learn to do this'

Putting yourself in awkward and uncomfortable situations helped me a lot. Like walking up to a group of females and just going 'Hey girls, may I trade a compliment for a hug?' - Many times they'd be like 'Ok, what's the compliment' - Then you lay it on them. Then they all give you hugs hah. Sure, to experienced PUA's this might seem like childs play but it's what got me to learn how to break the ice and now I ammuch more comfortable.


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Thu Apr 25, 2013 12:44 am 
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^^^"Good men" based on a woman's definition? They barely even know what they want half the time.

We're not here to 'please' them, If anything, what a woman wants is to be treated as an equal(Not a guy that will kiss their ass. That's why buying them drinks, complimenting them before they've earned one, and putting them on a pedestal in general is Outlawed). What you suggest is what AFC's have been doing for generations, and will continue doing. PUAs are a break from that cycle.

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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Thu Apr 25, 2013 2:01 am 
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^^^"Good men" based on a woman's definition? They barely even know what they want half the time.

We're not here to 'please' them, If anything, what a woman wants is to be treated as an equal(Not a guy that will kiss their ass. That's why buying them drinks, complimenting them before they've earned one, and putting them on a pedestal in general is Outlawed). What you suggest is what AFC's have been doing for generations, and will continue doing. PUAs are a break from that cycle.
Hey buddy, I told a girl last night I don't buy drinks for them unless I get a kiss first to seal the deal. She couldn't believe I said it and she started making out with me. So of course I bought some 2 for 1 domestics and made out with her all night hah

I'm still learning - But I'm getting better ;)


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Thu Apr 25, 2013 6:54 pm 
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All the advice on here is useful, but if you're just getting started doing daygame here's what I'd recommend:

1. Just get used to talking to strangers throughout your day. The shopkeeper, a person you see on wearing something you like etc. Just to warm you up so you're more confident when you see a girl you actually like & want to talk to her.

2. When you see a girl you want to approach on the street, GET IN FRONT OF HER. Be direct "Hey, I just had to meet you, I think you're really attractive" whatever. Just let her know your intentions.

You could be indirect and ask for directions but girls aren't stupid. In my opinion I think you should go after what you want, you'll be surprised how well this approach will work for you & its a confidence builder.

Good luck.


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Thu Apr 25, 2013 9:16 pm 
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man i was walking to one of my classes once and this really hot girl initiated eye contact with me and held it for like 5 seconds and then smiled at me and i was caught really off guard so i didnt do anything...i should have lol... im positive that she would have at least given me her number


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 9:30 am 
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All the advice on here is useful, but if you're just getting started doing daygame here's what I'd recommend:

1. Just get used to talking to strangers throughout your day. The shopkeeper, a person you see on wearing something you like etc. Just to warm you up so you're more confident when you see a girl you actually like & want to talk to her.

2. When you see a girl you want to approach on the street, GET IN FRONT OF HER. Be direct "Hey, I just had to meet you, I think you're really attractive" whatever. Just let her know your intentions.

You could be indirect and ask for directions but girls aren't stupid. In my opinion I think you should go after what you want, you'll be surprised how well this approach will work for you & its a confidence builder.

Good luck.
Hey man thanks for the advice... I particularly like your part 1... I think that will just build more social confidence in general which is definitely a good foundation to have before specifically approaching women... i also agree with you on the be direct thing... i just don't have near enough confidence to do it yet, not a particularly nervous guy, just too average i guess! This will change though!!!


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