Alright guys, went out last night to a bar with a group of friends and extended friends. There is this girl that lives with my friend, total hb9, and apparently a bit of a slut which makes this even more annoying. So over the course of the night I'm talking to her, dancing with her, and I get to this point were I've kino'd all the way up to 2 hands on her waist and my stomach against hers (which i thought was a pretty safe bet to go in for a kiss when ever). All her friends love me and wanted her to kiss me throughout the night so I don't think she felt uncomfortable in front of them. She then starts looking at my mouth as im talking, and i think "that is a total IOI"... so i go in for a kiss... i didnt go for her like a wild dog... just nice and slow... and she pulls away! I could call this last minute resistance, but tbh i think she was trying to tease me... Cut a long story short she was irritating me so i left her alone (i didnt look like i was in a mood or anything childish... just gradually moved away from her)... banged my first black chick that night so i guess there is a silver lining ... but my question is... what do you guys do when you have a chick who thinks she is crazy hot and is trying to make you go in for a kiss so she can pull away and tease you? I've had this before and it's not sexy! just irritating!

Sounds like you did it right. She wasn't into it and was trying to play you a little bit. It is very much irritating. I like to think of it this way, though. She probably expected you to try harder and instead you were just like, "Next!" and banged someone else. So the worries are all on her. Yes, I know. It'd be great to bag an HB9 on command, but there's not too many people who can naturally and frequently accomplish that. Don't feel bad, it's her loss.

So you think somehow build more attraction outside of kino? mate i will say... i dont think she has any worries... she banged a certain wales rugby player that night it turns out hahaha

Shit test and nothing more! You failed to some extent...

A HB like that get's hit on by the cream of the crop type of guys, and as such she is in a very powerful position. I personally think you were probably not assertive enough with her. What you should have done when she pulled away is given her a grin that said "Girl, you just missed your one opportunity to get a kiss from me tonight!" and continue with your interaction like nothing happened. Instead you moved away which showed her that you were not true to your convictions and were not the kind of guy who goes after what he wants, both of which are DLV in the eyes of HB8+.

Once I get the right amount of IOI from the top quality HB, I am never afraid to tell them exactly what is going to happen i.e. "I'm going to fuck the shit out of you!", if they say "Ohh really!?!" I simply reply "Yes I am" or "When the time is right, yes I am". Trust me when I say most girls love sex more than guys do, it is proven by a girls ability to have multiple orgasms back to back. True HB8+ want a take charge kind of guy...


Peace...

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fuck i think you're right... fuck sake... i'll remember that line, although since that happened i did read a post by slywalker with a kiss routine, when you're talking in her ear, just pull back enough so your face is really close to hers, then brush some of her hair out her face... if she lets you do that she's ready to kiss you... She has since added me on facebook, next time i'm out and i see her, i am definitely going to fuck the shit out of her... and as you said... if i get denied when trying to make out with a girl again, ill just say that line or something to that effect, then act as if nothing happened

Telling her that kind of stuff makes you challenging...They think "This guy thinks I can't kiss him, I'll show him!". Especially if she is HB8+

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

ye it's a good idea... often if i'm walking a chick back to mine or hers after a night out, i'll say " i'm not going to have sex with you, you know?"...... each time i have done that (except one time when the chicks bf fucking showed up!) that has worked... kind of the same thing i guess... disqualification