Okay, im not one of those chumps who cant get a woman, but i just have never been good at maintaining a relationship. The longest relationship ive had was for a month, three different times. Its not like ive never dated, i dont remember how many girls ive dated, it just typically ended within a month, its usually a mutual thing too though, i just dont understand how people manage relationships overtime.

Well basically im asking because this girl just broke up with a guy shes been dating for 3 years on and off and i considered dating her, she cheated on him with me but i dont know if she just wants me physically or as someone she could date. I kissed her like 2 days after they broke up cause she was basically all touchy feely on me all night but i couldnt do much more because we were with people and we were relatively secretive cause if my friends knew we did anything they might think shes a whore or something then id get nothing because she'd resent me.

I want to know the foundations on how to think when dating, what i can do to maintain a relationship for a long time, and how do you keep the sex drive going, im so used to just making it spontaneous

Tell me what you guys think, or ask if you knowing anything else could help you come up with some ideas

sounds like you shouldnt date her, cause one thing I do know is that if a girl cheats on her bf with you definitely not a girl you want to date cause sometime down the road she will repeat herself.

A girl whose relationship has been on and off with same guy sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Do youbself a favor rather getting hurt in the future just have fun with her.

This is just bad advice. Honestly, to answer the question, we need more details. What went wrong with Newb's previous relationships? Did he make mistakes? Or did he just lose interest? Was the problem with him or the type of girl he attracts? Did he date freaks or good girls (or hoes)?

Here's a few key parts of a successful relationship. First, invite her to do things. It's up to you to make plans (i.e. you're the guy, so you take the lead). This can be as easy as inviting her over to screw around. See her at least twice a week and do something sexual with her every time you see her (or almost every time). Give her orgasms and praise her when she does things you like.

There's a bit more to it then that, but you can learn the rest as you go.

-Wolf

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Well yeah i lose interest fairly quick, and i kind of go for the good girl relationship wise but a lot of them are sexually awkward. I dont think i only attract a certain type of girl but usually if the woman is pretty dominant im not that attracted to her. Maybe im less of a dominant person, not sure. Ive worked on that so i feel like im set but im just still not attracted to more dominant women.

And by off and on, they have been dating a year straight since their last fight, so im pretty sure shes not confused i mean shes 19 3 years is pretty significant. Im still 19 and not have had a relationship even 1/33th as long