Can you not troll the topic please

Troll:

One who posts a deliberately provocative message to a newsgroup or message board with the intention of causing maximum disruption and argument.


Sarcasm:

Your brain's natural defense against stupid.


I was not trolling, but yes I was being sarcastic.

Good luck at dinner Bro.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Sarcasm again?

Can't you see that your dinner idea is just as needy (if not more needy) than you were being before? Your neediness wasn't limited to just pestering her with questions, your whole attitude is still as beta and needy as ever. If you bought this girl diamond earrings, would it be alpha if you choose the earrings?? Think about it. You completely misunderstand what it means to lead.

So, you've buzzed your hair and bought a new car. Have you ever heard of the story of the Emperor's new clothes?

Stop trying to impress this girl. This girl has treated you badly, so your response is to apologise and spoil her with dinner at the best place in town? This is so needy AFC, it's almost cute. You throw around words like Beta and Needy, but you don't fully understand what they mean. If you ever want ANY woman to find you attractive STOP APOLOGISING. Alphas do whatever the fuck they want. Keep grovelling and apologising if you want to remain in the friend zone with all girls you ever meet.

"How do I bug her?" he asked, in a paragraph of 4x questions...

Ok you win. Because I already told her Id pick her up at five a week from now, what should my actions be going from this moment? Isn't it needy to break the break we've established to cancel? From this moment, what should I do?

Cancel the date WITHOUT an apology. Just say you are re-considering everything and you need time to think.

Then do nothing. Say nothing. Wait for her to chase you.

Do I do that in a text message? And how do I phrase it so? And you really think that's going to work to bring her back around?

This!

Send "I need to cancel, something came up."

Then Silence.

It will drive her crazy wondering what the "Something" is.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I already told her last time we spoke Idk if we could meet and she got defensive. And pissed off.

So? Her getting pissed won't kill you...or Her.
Show your not afraid of her, your NOT are you?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

And how long till she contacts me then?

Do you know what being "outcome-dependent" means?

This girl may never contact you again, you need to learn to be ok with that. You need to learn the ability to enjoy life without a woman. Treat women in your life as a bonus, not an essential. Only when you are prepared to lose this girl will you be ready to game this girl again. If you're not prepared to lose her and you would do anything to impress her to "win" her back, STOP RIGHT THERE because you are in the wrong frame of mind. Only contact her for a chat when you are ready to potentially breakup with her. You need the frame of mind "I dont give a shit if she stays or leaves". Without this you will lose her forever.