Hey everyone. I guess this post should tell you about myself.


I'm 28, I am often told I look 22 to 25. No one ever comes close. I have no problem getting girls as friends, or hooking up very often. I don't try all that hard, I'd say I usually meet a girl thats interested in me once a month.

I'm not saying all of this to brag, I just thought it might be of some interest in a way to describe my confidence level with women and how they react to me. I'm pretty good at non threatening encounters. When I'm at a bar, thats when I door pretty poorly. I've read the book - The Game, and watched a bunch of Neil/Mystery's stuff in video form.

I'm actually not looking to meet a quantity of women. My goal by far and even in my short term perspective is to meet someone that I find very attractive, that is intelligent, caring and funny so that I can stop this dating stuff and get back into a perm relationship.

I don't hold every girl I meet to this standard, and I rarely tell them this... but at the same time - I don't lead them on, by the 4th date even if we've hooked up, I usually deny sex and then explain that its not going to go much farther. Thats another thing, I always hold back and tease, not because I'm shy - but because I find it so much fun to wait for them to want it REALLY badly. I also don't have sex with girls that are not my "girlfriend" so I've gone over a year without sex - and I will openly tell a girl this. I think this also works to my advantage because they realize that if they want to sleep with me - they have to earn it. (few do)

Reading this may make you think that i'm full of myself, but I'm not. In fact I have trouble approaching in heavy social situations like bars... but this is also the most common place that I see an 8 thru 10. I'm hoping that by reading these boards and asking some questions, I can help myself to meet that stunning girl that just walked by and made me feel like a fool for not striking up a convo - or atleast pick up some info and then pass it on to someone else.

Critique my hello if you want, it won't bother me.

Everyone has thier reasons bro, none of us should deny you that. At least you didnt come here like some dudes going "teach me how i bang this one girl ive loved for 193 years but never talked to"

Aiming for a LTR is commendable. Bettering yourself so you can get that is commenddable too.

Knowing what you want and having goals is not cocky, does not make you full of yourself...those are good traits.

Now take the next steps and intitive by studying PUA and other topics that will help you obtain your goals.

Welcome to one of those resources.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."

Thanks Ka!