So I've been dating this HB8.5 for a few months. She's 18, super cute and hasn't had too many boyfriends. None of them lasted more than a month; I suppose that was an issue that she had with trusting somebody and letting them into her life. We were in my apartment getting hot and heavy (as we usually do) and this time I told her I wanted to make love to her so much, to which she responded with a look that said "it's complicated."

I figured she was one of those that wanted to wait for months before she allowed things to get sexual. We spoke about it and I found out that she really was a virgin, though she'd never told me directly. I let her know that she was in good hands and that no harm would come to her.

So I led her into my bedroom and we started making out again. She had always been really reluctant to let me touch her body, but slowly I uncovered more of her every time we saw each other. This time I turned off the lights so she wouldn't feel like I was scrutinizing her, and led her hand down south so she could start playing with me. I guess that did the trick because after that it was steady progression until we were all naked and I couldn't believe it was actually happening with this girl.

At first she was in a lot of pain, I could feel the tightness. I had to go very slowly and only a little at a time. It took about 5 minutes for me to just go halfway inside. She was in a lot of pain and tears were coming down her eyes; it was a very emotional moment. She kept saying my name and asking me to take it easy, to go slower. I kept kissing her and telling her how beautiful she was and how she drives me crazy. After about 15 minutes of this I was finally all the way in and she wasn't in so much pain anymore. It was very slow and paced. Afterwards I did what I knew I had to do: reassure her and make her feel comfortable.

But my question: now what? I've never had sex with a virgin before. She's a very special girl and I care about her. Am I supposed to call her today and tell her how much I enjoyed it, that I want her to be mine, etc. What does she expect/want from me? I like the girl, but don't want to seem too attached and look needy. But I don't want to look insensitive or detached, either. That was last night; what do you guys suggest I do today and this week?

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Work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt. and dance like no one is watching.

Virtual high five man. GJ.

I would offer some advice but i have no fucking idea. i only fuck drunk fat sluts.

Don't know the girl so can't really help you on this but since she was a virgin. I figure you should call at least and ask how her day went. If she wants you to come by you go. Just don't act needy, but be there for her incase she NEEDS you.

Thumbs up bro!

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The main reason Santa is so jolly is because he knows where all the bad girls live.

i never had sex in my entire life

i only have sex with my hand

i am getting old and still have no sex

If she was a virgin she is feeling all kinds of insecure the day after. Just make her feel comfortable she needs it badly. Shoot a text saying something like, just thinking about you. No need to bring up the sex.

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