Background: I met her at a club thru a mutual friend (not really close). I slept over the first night. Didnt have sex but got to third base. Had dinner with her a few days after that and f-closed (dont like that term but whatever). I asked her to be my gf but she said we just met, lets get to know each other first.

We went out to movie once. We had dinner a couple of times and I paid for everything (she didnt try to split the bill or anything). I made sure dinner wasn't super expensive tho (so doesn't look like I was trying to buy her dinners).

Anyway I went to NY/Miami for spring break and after that it kind of died...

me: 3/24 13:29: Eating dim sum in new york
her: 3/24 14:55: Haha lucky you!
me: 3/24 16:24: What are u up to?
her: 3/24 19:34: Just dinner at a friends place, nothing too crazy for Sunday haha
me: 3/24 22:35: Sounds chill. I'm playing board game w my cousins haha
her: 3/25 13:48: Yeah it was fun. We played the dumbest game called werewolf. It's like mafia.
me: 3/25 20:02: Haha you don't like mafia?
her: no response 1st time

me: 3/29 16:06: [NAME]! What are your plans for the wked? (nothing I didnt reply right away after she didnt give me a response)
her: no response 2nd time

me: 3/31 14:12: Hey just got back from Miami! Got a ridiculous lookin tan on my face haha...how's ur schedule looking for this week? We are going sailing and celebrating ur bday
her: 3/31 15:03: How was your trip? Tmr I'm getting dinner with friends who couldn't make it to my dinner last Fri.
(3/31 is a Sunday, her bday is 4/1, she had dinner w friends on friday)
me: 3/31 17:24 It was great...can't wait for summer! Hope u had a great wked! I'm free on weds, wanna meet up?
her: no response 3rd time

me: 4/1 17:52 Happy bday!
her: 4/1 17:58 Thank you! Sorry I'm terrible at responding. I have a church thing every Wednesday. Hmm this week is busy. Maybe Thursday?
me: 4/1 19:06: Sure

---thursday---
me: 4/4 12:29 Hi wanna meet at ur place arnd 6?
her: no response 4th time

me: 4/4 16:58 Still up for bday dinner?
(bad...cuz I made it sound like I was buying her dinner again? she's at work tho)
her: 4/4 17:11 Can't, dunno when I'll get out
me: 4/4 17:20: Ok are we canceling?
her: no response 5th time
me: 4/4 18:30 Nvm I got plans now. Enjoy your evening.
(this is bad right?)
her: no response 6th time

----I forgot she was out of town traveling-----
me: 4/6 14:20 I want to see G.I.Joe. Care to join me?
her: no response
me: 4/6 17:59: Haha u are so responsive
her: 4/6 18:24: Sorry I'm out of town
me: 4/6 18:59: Oh when r u back?
her: no response

me: 4/16 19:52: Meowwwwwww
(dunno trying something new, 10 days no contact)
her: no response
me: 4/16 21:35: [Name]! How've u been?
her: no response
-----Boston in lockdown cuz of recent events-----
me: 4/19 17:51: U got work?
her: no response

Over spring break, our mutual friend texted me...
him: I heard you were in Miami? Ultra?
me: Nah just chilling on the beach
me: U celebrating [name]s bday?
him: Yuppp
me: Haha nice make sure she doesnt go too crazy
him: She's not
(red flag right here)
me: What r u guys up to?

I already sense a red flag from talking to our mutual friend. This was around 3/29-3/30

Another background info: I made out with the mutual friend's ex. And I also made out with another friend of his one time.

The mutual friend probably killed my relationship with the girl. Not sure if I did anything badly over text... I tried to not sound needly over text, but I guess I did? I was wondering if there was anything I can do to save it.

Started so hot, normally the time apart would surely make her want you more?

Maybe he's trying to get there himself and talked you down to make himself seem the complete package. Wierd. Ask her straight up if you don't care if you get bad news?

Texting without intentions. Chasing the girl. You are acting desperate. Stop trying to save it. She did not give you a reason to think she was interested. If she ignores you she's not.

This girl is not into you. GFTOW why-you-need-to-submit-to-gftow-vt160319.html

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"asked her to be my gf but she said we just met, lets get to know each other first".

The quote above is the exact statement where you lost her! WTF were you thinking when you said this?

I can tell you what she was thinking after you said it: "OMG we had sex one time and now this guy wants to be my BF?"

It happens to guys (AFC) a lot, they game a girl really well, fuck them good, and then completely change the way they act towards her. What was wrong with what you had going with this chick, why did she need to be your GF, why could'nt you just hang out with her and have some fun until something real developed?


Peace...

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MINDSET, bro. You pushed her away by asking her to be your gf (it was way too early to even ask her to be your gf, she should be the one to discuss a potential r/s with you. Make her chase you). I don't know if this is resolvable to be honest with you, but at least you f-closed. Keep this in mind: ALL women are disposable. Now go out and talk to some new girls and game them. Good luck, bro.