Hows it going fellas

Long story short. I met this really cute HB9 a few weeks ago and cold approached her in uni. Sat down and got to know her for a few minutes and then I had to leave. The next week, I find her sitting in the same spot and she calls me over to hang out with her. Plenty of teasing and flirting coming from my way, but she laughs in a shy way. (Receptive body language, but shes very nervous)

Everytime I see her she gives me this big hug. Im with her in the bus, and I have my arm around her and my head on her shoulder (her head is on mine) and holding hands. She tells me she likes me (after I told her I think she looks cute ) I tried to kiss her when I was getting off but she blushed and turned away.

So, I was once again with her yesterday. Plenty of kino, but when I did the kiss close routine on her, I went total AFC and chickened out. I told her I wanted to kiss her but she tells me shes never kissed a guy or had a boyfriend. (I heard from a friend she used to be overweight back in school so Im guessing self esteem issues?)

I tried a few times to kiss her then, but she wasnt having any of it. (Afraid I went overboard)

We also had a date arranged for this weekend but I dont think either one of us can make it, busy schedules.

So how come I cant kiss her? Should i adjust my game for this one girl? Shes for sure into me, but I reckon shes just scared of the fact that she hasnt ever been with a guy before.

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She prolly has low self esteem like u are saying. She prolly even afraid to give her self you u in that way thinking u could be using her. Sounds like the type of girl that u have to make her think your invested in her then just tell her u got her something and remind u to give it to u later. when she reminds u ya say ok close you eyes and open your hand. grab her and and kiss her.

Thanks for the reply ResponsE

Yea the self esteem issue is probably the major hindrance in her case. She also hinted the fact that we should 'take it slow'. I probably came off as a bit too sexual with all that kino, since shes not used to any of it.

Should I tone down the kino? She has no problems (that I can see) with me touching her, but when I hint at the kiss, she gets uncomfortable. The kiss close routine you suggested sounds good. Ill try it for sure.

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Good things come to those who wait. Greater things come to those who get off their ass and do anything to make it happen

Don't worry about toning down the kino there is nothing wrong with that, as far as her saying she wants to take it slow most of the time these are the girls that are looking for a serious relationship or she doesn't want to feel self conscious about herself giving herself to you. It's not a bad thing these girls just take a little more investing but once you crack them it makes you feel like a boss hah. Let her know you will never judge her it will help put her at ease. And trust me that kiss close routine works amazing, just be sure to lay the best most passionately smacker down as possible! You got this bro!

Im really new to pua but you could give this a try, "Wanna see a trick? I bet you I can kiss your lips without touching them". Her: "okay". then just kiss her... "Well I guess I failed".