Alright so there is the chick and she's one of my exes friends, used to be best friends. I'd dated this ex awhile ago (a year and a half) and that's pretty much water under the bridge. This chicks gorgeous and she's cool but anyways that's the background and let me tell you guys what's up which leads me to my main problem, I cant seem to close this one.

I started talking to her pretty regularly about eight months ago and she usually initiates contact and she will hang out with me here and there and she will usually initiate when she wants to see me. But these last few months every time we had plans they fell through mainly due toe being busy when she wants to hang out. She asked me if I wanted to bang her and after a series of flirting I basically was like yeah and she was like well I'm not banging anyone for a long time bla bla (which generally means you). But it's always real easy to flirt with her if she's in the right mood and escalating the sex talk is real easy but anyways i asked her to hang out tomorrow night among some sexy talk tonight and she said she's down and so assuming things pan out I want to get out of limbo and finally seal this deal. I never spend this much time or energy on one girl but we are pretty tight and attracted to each other at times so in a nut shell I'm trying to shift into friends with benefits and I need to figure out how to make the final push. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

P.S. she knows I want to smash on her and even though she says she's not into it she acts like she's really into it and still wants to come hang out with me anyways so I'm guessing that she just wants to see how bad I want it. Cheers guys.

Well honestly, don't let her jerk u around at all anymore. Be the boss the fucking man.

I would straight up grab her pull her to me. One hand on the back of the neck with tight grip, other waist. Make out with her and keep escalating. Tell her you will make her have multiple orgasms and if she keeps holding out straight up tell her to get the fuck on and kick her out.

Yeah I've learned to take control of the situation and it's working out real well for me and I never spend this much time on one chick but its just a conquest I have to have.

based off what u said if u did what I said it will work and if it doesn't it will set it up perfect to work the next time even if she got mad if u told her to leave she would eventually text u back saying sorry and shit and know what to expect hanging out with u, trust me..

Yeah that's what I'm feeling I'm just trying to figure out how I should run the show tmrw night