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no its not anything she entrusted, but something some1 else (not a friend of hers anymore) found out about and told everyone, just it missed me somehow, and it seems she is hoping that i dont find out, because whenever I bring up this guy (who told every1) she'll just say she hates him because hes a loser then channge the subject
By her changing the subject and being uncomfortable with it; it sounds like something you should avoid. I can see how saying you're ok with it may build comfort, but I would avoid it altogether, don't mention it again (unless it comes up). The idea is to build comfort and also portray a sense or fun by bringing up a negative subject it puts a downer on things.