Text Convo on Monday

Background story, she invited me to party with her and her friends. I declined and said I have to watch the game with the guys (march madness any1?!). Plus she told me she had mostly guy friends which sounded like a shit time.

I text her on Monday
Me:
Hey sorry for blowing you off last weekend, I'm fairly busy but I do make time for cool people, whats ur schedule this week?

HB10:
Aww ur fine, im bizzy this week ive got stuff n errands. Wed dart leageue thur pool league, fri n sat work day free night sun work night

Me:
Yea that may work on other guys but not me. Last I checked we're both human, I predict u getting hungry around 8pm

HB10:
Ohhh yah fri n sat night im free!

Me:
Fine, but I'm gonna have to call u out on one of ur lies
(Background, I got the girl to push some of my product)

Me:
"I would never deal!" 30 seconds later you became the kingpin of _____

HB10:
Well not on purpose had opportunity happen n going with….lol

Me:
Balogny I think I can convince u to do all sorts of crazy shit.

HB10:
Haha ohh yah like what? Lol

(Background I fucked up by not doing good kino with her, so I didn’t want to be specific with anything sexual yet)

Me:
Patience, u just wait and see. It will have to wait till Friday

And she flaked, and didn’t even bother responding to a text when I tried to setup logistics.

I think there was a bit of whiplash there. I think you had her in a good place as soon as she said she was free on Friday or Saturday. It's kind of hard to understand why you'd call her a liar and then tell her you control her. My feeling is that this would be seen as being aggressive. I find that Lol often doesn't mean Lol, but a whole bunch of smiley faces are a better indicator, but that's just me.

Yeah your probably right, I guess what was going through my mind is I didn't want to fall into her friendzone.

I see her last Friday. She talks to me about her life problems. I'm about to head out, she has plans with a friend as do I.

She says "I'll see you around".
I'm like "Yeah prob never again"
She says "I'm sure I'll see you next Friday you're always here on Fridays, or whenever you invite me over..."
I play aloof "Yeah, like that's gonna happen and say goodnight"

I text her the next day to invite her over to hang out on Saturday night
She thanks me for the invite says she's busy and counters with an invitation to some play (Boyfriend zoned?!)
By the time she replied to my text I made other plans and declined hers.

I text her Monday saying I'm free Tues night to hang out. Whats your schedule looking like?
No response

Can also be boyfriend zone. I have a girl I see who I can tell really likes me, but REALLY wants to be in a relationship. I usually keep it light, but I can also be a human being from time to time and help her with her issues. I nearly always qualify with:

Me: You know I'm not a girl right?
Me: Because I'm just going to try and solve your problem here
Her: Haha
Me: Okay, so ...

This is normal. Women want to know whether they can trust your judgement. Just don't return the favor. Women give stupid advice.
Depends if you like plays or not. I hate them. I went to one a while ago though, as the actress was hot and she was naked most of the play. Was okay in the end, was a bit weird with the scene of boiling eels though.

Seems like you just have to be patient with this one. Your texts are not really engaging. They are aloof and relaxed, but I don't think she's going to be wanting to text with you that much. Might want to work on that, or not, isn't critical.

I made it fairly obvious that I want to get into her pants and she is still inviting me out to shit.
She might be testing me to see if I'm relationship material.
Is she really that delusional to think I'm going to pursue her as a girlfriend?
She admitted to still having feelings and hooking up with her ex. I mean she's hot but I'm not an idiot.

It doesn't look at all like your game is heading in that direction. Unless she is really horny some night. Don't get me wrong, but just being aloof and distant isn't going walk you into a girl's pants.

don't over think an ignored text. She may not even realize you texted her. Technology also breaks down all the time. Also if you want decent advice you need to put the times these texts go in and out and more back ground info.

Hmmm so what does he need? More C +F? What can he do to advance?

Bottom line don't mess with girls who are still getting over their ex. She admitted that she was already comparing me to him.

Do better kino move faster with a kiss or f close, its key to tapping into their emotions. If there are no emotions she won't date you.

I played it wrong, who cares, I'm not gonna dwell on it. Already got 2 other hotter dates