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PostPosted: Sun Apr 14, 2013 4:34 pm 
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In before Majikal bitches about dating sites.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 16, 2013 11:03 pm 
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In before Majikal bitches about dating sites.
To each their own. For me logging into my phone for 10-20 minutes a day is worth it even if I never get a number. I've had fairly decent success and I'm probably going to get laid tonight with a girl I started talking to from OKC... I have some more things I want to post but haven't had the time. To be continued.

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 8:38 pm 
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Testing out a new profile on POF
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I can't have sex with your personality
and I can't put my penis with your college degree
and I can't shove my fist up your childhood dreams
So why are you trying to share this information with me?

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 2:02 pm 
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Some things that I've picked up on recently.

First, I had a girl who I was messaging and she randomly stopped answering. I gave it about a week with no answer still so I sent another message when I saw her online saying that I asked a simple question and it's rude to ignore people. She responded immediately saying she was sorry and that she just got so many emails that she didn't know I had responded. She had felt disappointed I didn't respond to her. This showed me two things. One, it confirmed my theory that you should only message girls when they're online. Two, just because she doesn't respond doesn't mean that you should give up. I wouldn't go and say something like, why aren't you answering wah wah wahh. Something assertive like what's wrong with them for not talking to you. After one more message though let it go or you're being too needy.

Second, I met this girl who had never met anyone online. After talking a day or so I mentioned hanging out and she was down. Basically something like, I'm busy till next week but tomorrow night I'm free if you want to come do something. While I was texting her that night I asked if she was nervous. Of course any girl meeting someone online is nervous. I sent her a goofy picture of me picking my nose and asked if she was still nervous. She said a little less, so I said something like, look I understand this is kinda weird but let me know if I can do anything to make it less weird for you. She said that me simply asking that was enough and now she was really looking forward to hanging out with me. From now on, I'll do this any time I'm planning on meeting someone for the first time. Her personality notably shifted to being much more comfortable talking to me.

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PostPosted: Sun May 05, 2013 7:03 pm 
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I haven't really been updating this as much as I wanted to. I met a girl off OkCupid and I actually like her alot so I haven't been using the site as actively.

Some new things I've learned:

As far as openers go...
Teasing seems to get me the most responses. I don't insult, I tease in a competitive, playful way.... Like I do x better than them and they stink. The second best is observational... I say something like I thought they were cool because they like x but then I saw y and that ruined it. Since I was 50/50 weather to message them or not I gave them the benefit of the doubt... After that I like compliment openers. Try HARD to find something unique or you'll just blend in with these, something non physical. Though I am testing out shock/awe openers online. Honestly, I've had quite a few girls open me recently. Mostly about the picture of me on the donkey. People from around here know it took me hopping a fence on to a few rocks over water to get over there. Try to get something that really stands out like that for yourself.

Other lines I like to use mid convo...
I always comment how she didn't put enough effort in her profile and she is relying too much on her pretty smile/hair/whatever. Then I ask something to qualify for the next 2 messages. Saying her profile sucks gives you some grounding to qualify, that way it isn't completely random and I found they've answered more.

I always ask a girl what shes looking for on there and they reply asking me the same. I used this one line once and I decided I love it and it's worked great in field and online. I tell them I'm a male escort. Online I mention how it was cold this winter and I didn't want to work the corners so I moved online for business.

When the topic of what we should do comes up I stick to this plan. I live just outside Atlantic City. I tell them we're going to go into the city and make friends with a bunch of random people. We're going to drink, dance, and just enjoy life. Then I tell them if they're lucky I'll even teach them how to pick up women.

I still believe in only messaging girls who are online. I don't even look at girls who are offline. The morning seems to get the most responses.

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PostPosted: Wed May 08, 2013 11:10 am 
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Thanks divva most of us appreciate blunt to the point no pussyfooting around advice from the otherside since most women beat around the bush for reasons such as protecting us not to hurt our feeling or not wanting to look like a bitch.

I always set my browsing to hidden since it was ny gut telling me women getl freaked out like you said.

You're my new go to girl for perspective ;)
Wow - thanks Jambi! I hope to help in any way I can. Follow me on Twitter for more good advice. @profilediva and check out my Free Tips for men on how to write a profile to attract the women you want. http://www.profilediva.net/tips.html

Happy Online Dating!

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From a woman's POV - I totally agree with the advice of not looking at a girl's profile too many times without messaging them.

It is absolutely creepy and makes us think you go on every night and look at our pics as you jack off. Sorry to be crude, but we're not as silly as you think.

If you're hemming and hawing about contacting us, you're either A) waiting to hear back from a girl you like better, or B) not confident enough to hold our interest anyway. Fortune favors the brave!!

And by the way, I know this is a PUA forum but really, guys, you can overdo the strategy angle. This is not sending a man to the moon. Trying to break down every word that you say and analyzing every word a woman says to you is wasting your energy!! Just trust your gut, be honest, and be yourself!! That is my best advice.

Cheers,
'be yourself'

Said every woman, everywhere.

I'd like every woman to be herself as well, no makeup, no fake stuff anywhere. Let's see where that gets them...
Which is why I listen to David D when he says never ask a woman for advice on a women.

Muzz,

I don't know David D but I'm pretty sure I know what he's talking about. Most women, particularly young ones, don't really know what they want, and they've been taught to say they want certain things in a man. They can be easily manipulated or played on the surface to give their attention, which is the cornerstone of PUA philosophy from what I can gather.

I'm saying that it's better to actually BECOME more confident and interesting as a man, and then all you have to do is be yourself. It's not an act or a game you can run with any success if you don't have the goods to back it up in your ACTUAL personality. Lying, posing and using a script will only get you so far.

It's all about what you want. What kind of women. What kind of relationship. Different strategies get you different things.

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