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PostPosted: Sun Apr 14, 2013 11:36 am 
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I've posted quite a bit on these forums recently and I definitely have some inner game issues to sort out though I've made sure my girlfriend hasn't seen too much of that. But I think I'm losing her.

We've been together almost 2 months now, long distance so it's a little tricky and I'm seeing her this weekend. Anyway lately shes been going through some stuff so shes been a bit quiet and hasn't really spoken as much as we usually do. Last night I got drunk and we ended up spending practically the entire night (until around 5am) texting, having read back through it was practically us declaring our love for each other, saying cute things but I was being teasing etc.. too, conversation was really flowing.

Anyway she put up a screenshot of part of our conversation on Instagram, to which I found had been deleted this morning. I tried hard not to mention it but in the end I did

Me: I can't believe you deleted that Instagram picture, I knew you didn't love me :P
Her: Haha it was nothing, it was too sweet for instagram it was becoming diabetic
Me: It's okay I wouldn't want my other girlfriends seeing it anyway

Now last night she was telling me how much she loves me, can't wait to see me etc.. and then said "You're the guy of my dreams, I want you forever", I didn't return that, I simply called her cute or something like that. But I have this nagging feeling that she likes someone else, I obviously have absolutely no proof and I can't ask her about it. When I drop the texts off she often does start up conversations 7-8 hours later. It just seems whenever things get good and I say something sweet (it's not constant, it's more 70-80% teasing, being playful, fun sexual and 20-30% cute lovey stuff) things drop off.

Any ideas? (working on inner game currently)


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 14, 2013 12:34 pm 
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If you think she likes another guy... you're probably right.
How do you know its not a game for her? Do you think she actually loves you after 2 months of long distance relationship? Women like that aren't ready for anything serious.


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 14, 2013 12:52 pm 
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If you think she likes another guy... you're probably right.
How do you know its not a game for her? Do you think she actually loves you after 2 months of long distance relationship? Women like that aren't ready for anything serious.
We've known each other over a year, but we become "official" two months ago so shes definitely had time to "fall in love" so to speak.


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 14, 2013 1:12 pm 
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Hey,

I have no idea why you are doubting yourself?

Read your post again. There's no bad word in it. The facts are good, there's nothing more you can do.
She says she loves you, says she wants to spend her time with you, initiates when you dont.

How often do you see her, and how is the sex? Seeing this is a LDR.

You should rate the interest of your girl by sex.


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 14, 2013 2:19 pm 
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Hey,

I have no idea why you are doubting yourself?

Read your post again. There's no bad word in it. The facts are good, there's nothing more you can do.
She says she loves you, says she wants to spend her time with you, initiates when you dont.

How often do you see her, and how is the sex? Seeing this is a LDR.

You should rate the interest of your girl by sex.
I have no idea either, just little things perhaps! I see her usually at least once sometimes more, the sex is usually great and no problems when we're together or actually apart! But there's something sitting on the back of my mind that I just can't seem to shake off


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 14, 2013 2:38 pm 
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Nothing is wrong. Enjoy your gf. Enjoy the affection/sex you get. Enjoy the sun. That's all you have to do. 8)
cheers!


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 14, 2013 3:14 pm 
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Nothing is wrong. Enjoy your gf. Enjoy the affection/sex you get. Enjoy the sun. That's all you have to do. 8)
cheers!
Cheers, I figured its probably just "things are great, somethings gonna go wrong" mentality. Out in the garden with a beer as we speak! Cheers again


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 15, 2013 8:34 pm 
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Mate, there is no problem. You overthink this. Get out and do something which you enjoy, just don't sit home thinking about this.


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