I couldn't find a better word for it.

But in which case, my situation is like this: I went out sarging and clubbing a lot in the first months of this year and I have made a lot of connection with a decent amount of girls, but the problem is that I didn't really have the time to be with the girls I really liked, I just were with all girls equally and i've been busy the last months with a 2-month-education (I still made out with 2 girls and banged one from the class I went to) so I didn't have the time to be with the girls I really wanted to.

Most of the old girls i've met texted me pretty often and I saw some of them too but we lost connection after a while because I didn't have time.
Now however I got time, but I don't really know how I would "re-attract" them again (a simple "hi let's meet up again " doesn't feel like it would create a lot of interest).


Wouldn't it be easier to attract a girl that already been attracted to you once?
Or is a cold girl cold forever?
How can you pick up old girls you already attracted once but they gone cold?

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“Be extremely subtle, even to the point of formlessness. Be extremely mysterious, even to the point of soundlessness. Thereby you can be the director of the opponent's fate.” sun tzu

Try something like this:

Text your favorite "old" girl and say "Hey, this is [your first name] from [where you met her], I know you've been thinking about me all this time, so I figured I'd give you a break and text you back."

Or "Hey, this is... I hope by now you've gotten to know all the lame guys at [your university, whatever] and are ready to date a cool guy."

Or if there was some sexual tension, say "Hey, this is... I know I haven't texted you for a while, but I've been in Europe on a male underwear model tour. But you probably don't want to know about that, I know you only like accountants."

Etc.

HTH, ~50

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Thanks, but I didn't really have the time to test it out before one of the most interesting girls started texting me the yesterday (I still will test what you said later with another girl however).

The thing with her is that she always says she wants to meet but she never can, I don't really know if it's because we havn't seen each other in a long time or anything else.