BACKGROUND
This cute muslim conservative girl seemed promising months ago.
We were making out in a club and a couple of days after decided to meet again.
But we never met and it then died, possibly because of me being too needy (the text convo is here, she then defriended me from FB). I wasn't rude or anything though.

After 4 months I sent a "wassup" message a couple of weeks ago but no reply.
I'd like to try one last time though because closing the chapter.


TEXT
OK, I don’t usually chase girls too much but I will do one last try with you, after which I will only wish you to fulfill everything you wanted and to finally be happy back in XXX (hopefully without your father finding out that you smoke ). <--- this is an inside joke


I’d be glad to go out one of these days and I’m sure in the end you would be happy as well . So if you agree let me know your schedule and we will organize.

Don't send that. You are talking as if you are still trying to build comfort. Attraction with women is like a balloon. Every time you fuck up, it pokes a small hole in that balloon.... You can re inflate it but you have to start from attraction again.

Try this....

"Hey, I wanna ask you something that has kept me sleepless for days and I really want you to be totally honest with me. It might be kinda awkward between us after I ask you this but I have to know how you feel. I have kept this in my mind for a while now but it's finally time. I'll be straight up and just confront you.... I hope this doesn't ruin the relationship we already have. I just need to know and I don't see any other way I could get over it. Things wouldn't be fair on me if I don't get an answer. I want you to tell me truthfully, no matter how harsh your answer. I just want your honest opinion... Do you like coke or lemonade?"

Good luck.

-Majik

Don't send that. You are talking as if you are still trying to build comfort. Attraction with women is like a balloon. Every time you fuck up, it pokes a small hole in that balloon.... You can re inflate it but you have to start from attraction again.

Try this....

"Hey, I wanna ask you something that has kept me sleepless for days and I really want you to be totally honest with me. It might be kinda awkward between us after I ask you this but I have to know how you feel. I have kept this in my mind for a while now but it's finally time. I'll be straight up and just confront you.... I hope this doesn't ruin the relationship we already have. I just need to know and I don't see any other way I could get over it. Things wouldn't be fair on me if I don't get an answer. I want you to tell me truthfully, no matter how harsh your answer. I just want your honest opinion... Do you like coke or lemonade?"

Good luck.

-Majik