Member:
Myself and a kid I was coaching
Place:
Salsa club and Nesta
So I took a kid I was coaching out. He was so excited but surprised me with lack of common sense.
He asked me how much the cover was for places earlier that day on the phone, and still showed up with no money...Also he was not dressed up appropriately for the night out. Another coach took him out at night so I was expecting him to know how to dress for night but he came with sneakers which were really old and ripped.
That made me really angry but I decided to cover for him that night...
But first I made it clear that he had to have at least some money ($10 minimum on him so he can at least cover the entrance and coat check) and the ripped shoes I told him that the next place we are heading to will probably not let him in because of that. Also explained to him the importance of dressing well to have a better first impression.
We go inside the Salsa place around 11pm, all the good salsa dancers are taking the floor but it wasn't really crowded.
I waited for my entourage to come join us after finishing salsa class at another place.
In a meanwhile, we approached girls who were there without any male company but the kid I was coaching was too young to fit in the place so we moved the place to Nesta on St.Laurent as soon as the entourage arrived.
Nesta is a place I've found not too long ago, it has good crowd, good music, good vibe and very friendly staff. I've been going back there several times and game me the "Home" status being very familiar with the environment which makes me really comfortable being there approaching women.
Thanks to my wing Justin AFC about a month ago, he made me wait for an hour for him outside when I chatted up with the bouncer, and that same night I chatted with all 3 bouncers, manager, bartender and one of the owners.
So whenever I go, I get few free shots and girls I go with or I find there look at me and ask, "Who are you?"
It's a big plus
Makes me DHV, and also they think that if people working here know me and treat me nice, then I'm not a freak which makes their guards down easier.
So it's good to have a place where you feel like your home territory.
The kid had bad shoes but the bouncer let us in because he was with me that night. Which was a plus.
It was a first time for him to go to a place like that he said and he was all excited approaching sets with too much energy even if they weren't up to the same energy level which got him rejected several times.
Also the fact that he wasn't dressed well made well-dressed girls tell him fuck off several times whenever he approached them alone.
He had actually experienced the difficulty of approaching girls without dressing well; he got screened by girls looking at him from head to toes then laugh at him
I gave him a lot of advice how to approach girls that night, try to match their energy level instead of going too hyper, told him to grab the girls who were dancing near our group to join us. Basic thing in night game that he wasn't familiar with.
He wanted to see how to escalate with a girl, so I demonstrated with a girl by chatting, then dancing, dancing and holding hands, getting closer and closer hugging while dancing, kiss her on the forehead, neck then make out.
I could have made out with her without the kiss on the forehead or neck, but I wanted to show him the steps to take in case he doesn't know when it's ok to go for a kiss.
He was happy to an actual process live not only on videos that he has seen online.
And thank god it worked with the first girl I tried with lol. It is true, when you're coaching, you become afraid of failing in front of men. Life was much simpler when I was afraid of failing in front of women only haha
That night he had 2 NC which was not bad at all and went home satisfied.
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