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Holy shit man, thats impressive.
What were some of your openers and which negs did you use?
The most common opener I used was
"I need a female opinion. I was in *enter town/city* yesterday getting some guitar strings (DHV) and books from the libary (DHV) and I decided to get a coffee. I sat on my own and some guy approached me. I am a social guy(DHV) so we where chatting, then he started asking if I work out, so I said yeah (DHV) and he started feeling my becepts. HE WAS HITTING ON ME! do I look gay?"
Most of the time they interupted so I could get some thing like "it's rude to interupt" neg. Nearly every time they tryed to grab my hat so I would use "dont be so grabby" and ask her friends "is she always like this?". The hat played a vital role. I had to hold it on my head in the club because women wouldn't stop trying to take it. Another neg that I used was if they neg me i just did a ttsss sound(i dont know how else to describe it), look as if they should never neg you and walk away and they nearly alway grab you back.
Alot of the time they say I look gay because of the hat and a few times they said they thought I was gay when I walked in because of the hat. This gives me another chance to neg e.g. "what you steriotype gay people as wearing cowboy hats?". I also used the line "the hat comes as part of the job", then they ask about the job so I say "a cowboy obviusly", then they are desperate to know what you do.
From what I learnt about neging(and please dont take this advice if you dont believe me becuase I am still a newbie) it is best to do it off the cuff. Just make something up and banter with the girl. Occasionaly a girl will look you dead in the eye as if to say "what the hell did you just say to me?" I look them straight back with a smile on my face and they usually smile back, if not I just put my hand out and say I am *enter name here* and shake there hand.