Okay so I'm new first of all and I was wondering about getting tips from you guys help me out. Please do not give me advice you read or heard about give me advice from experience if you have it.

Note: I AM NOT TRYING TO GET WITH THIS GIRL just get her to respect me a little more.

Lets just say I got this friend we've known each other for probably 6 years or so. In the last year or so we got closer and closer shes really really good looking. She's caring and down to earth but sometimes I allow her to walk over me sometimes. She'll sometimes downplay my intelligence or go as far as to call me names and i'll allow it. The reason for this is because I care to much about hurting her feelings maybe that's my major downfall. I'm submissive and she's dominant that's all their is to it. I'm a real asshole meaning once I reach my limit i'll DESTROY people I've done it to people before and don't ever want to go that route that's another reason I control myself.

How do I turn the tides? How do I get her to do what I want sometimes and not look at me as a joke.

I want to be alpha meaning turn the tides and make her feel like she should respect me and establish boundaries?

then you have those boundaries. No ifs or buts. My good friend of 4 years used to bully me and call me out on shit. One night, I was talking to two other guys, you know socializing and she slaps me for no reason (she was drunk). I give her a dirty look and I use social pressure (the two other guys) to make her apologize. Little by little, my frame became more dominant, every time she acted out I would call her out on it or laugh at her like it was a joke. Now, she drives me everywhere, buys me food with her school money, and I fondle her whenever i want.


Dean A.


An alpha male does not put up with B.S. behavior.

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How can she respect you if you LET her walk all over you. You need to set your boundaries and let it me known, if she tries to walk all over you again, you tell her NO. You don't need to justify your actions, you just do it.

She may either accept it and instantly respect you or in my experience expect a fight, people don't like change. You will be taking her power away, don't react to her abuse just be cool (Don't hate her for the abuse, it's not her it's her ego fighting) and once she realizes you will not be shifted she will come around.

This will change your life. People value and respect people far more when they have fair boundaries.

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Is not about dominating her its about holding true to your own set of values and interacting with her as a man to a women not a friend to a friend.

Remember you are the man, she is the women, I don't mean this in a misogynistic way, what I mean is that she is relating to you as a friend to friend, women want the person they are with to lead, to be the man, to have values.

Have core values and If she crosses these core values be willing to walk. Dont freak out like a girl, just say "okay" and walk without looking back....

From the sound of things you are afraid to walk away, there is a simple cure for this and its called getting more girls...it works wonders lol when you have abundance you don't worry so much about what one girl does and she can sens that.

Bam. This is your problem. Stop caring and fix it.