I never get girls maintaining eye contact with me and never get a smile like you always hear guys talk about. What am I doing wrong with my eye contact? Usually when I do make eye contact they immediately look away

Im not the best looking guy but defiantly aren't ugly. Ill admit my confidence isnt that great due to some acne I have on my face. Ive also been told I have a "pissed off" looking face, which could be my problem and am trying to fix.

Anyways, just looking for some eye contact and confidence building tips. I just want to walk by a girl, make eye contact, and have her smile at me.

_________________
Anyone can be confident with a full head of hair. But a confident bald man - there's your diamond in the rough.
- Larry David

I had a friend with acne who got put on Ro-acutane and it cleared up pretty well. Wear matte foundation until it clears up.

If you want a girl to smile at you, you need to smile at her first !!!

Also, a girl looking away is not necessarily a sign that she's not interested. In fact, if a girl looks at you for a few seconds with eye contact then looks DOWN it's a sign she really likes you, the looking down is her showing she will be submissive and won't resist your advances.

Ive began to look to much into where she looks after she break eye contact that its starting to bother me. The 6's and 7's usually look down but the 8's and up usually look off to the side, which ive heard isnt a good thing, which then makes me feel like shit and less confident. fuck

_________________
Anyone can be confident with a full head of hair. But a confident bald man - there's your diamond in the rough.
- Larry David

You need to open your mouth and say something. Anything. Start a conversation, build comfort, physically escalate.

Always assume attraction, like you are Brad Pitt / Jonny Depp, it will make you more attractive.

my problem also is that im not a great talker either. I can be a pretty shy guy and can be pretty socially akward a lot of the time. I also am told I mumble alot..I got some work too do I know. ha

_________________
Anyone can be confident with a full head of hair. But a confident bald man - there's your diamond in the rough.
- Larry David

It's your lack of confidence which is putting women off.

ya i know...you know somedays I feel good about it then other I feel like shit. How does one even work on their confidence? it seems like its not something you can really change to me if you dont have it.

_________________
Anyone can be confident with a full head of hair. But a confident bald man - there's your diamond in the rough.
- Larry David

You're in the right place if you want to learn how to be confident.

I recommend you start in the Social Shyness forum then read the sticky posts there before moving onto the Beliefs and Confidence Building.

Hey man I had major issues about confidence for a long time I couldn't talk to a girl without stuttering.
What helped me was becoming picky about a quality in girls. For instance I one day decided I need a girl with a job and a car. I found out quickly that I can't find this girl by just looking at them so I had to talk to them opposed to just hope when I make eye contact and a smile.
Any girl who makes eye contact with you, mom grandma fat ugly hot whatever,just say smile say hello and ask how their day was be simple act genuine like you really care and conversation should flow after you have a couple of conversations you should feel better in your skin

_________________
if you get yourself to k close I can get you to f close private message me for details. Works like magic

alright, thanks alot guys. I really appreciate it. Personally I feel I have some deeper issues than lack of confidence that I need too address first such as some social anxiety as well as depression issues. But I am aware of them and want to work on them, which is the first step right?

I also dont understand how from 1 or 2 second of quick eye contact a girl cant evaluate your confidence level so easily??

_________________
Anyone can be confident with a full head of hair. But a confident bald man - there's your diamond in the rough.
- Larry David

just keep practicing improving yourself and try to keep practicing eye contact.

lol dude i look at girls sooooo long to practice my eye contact it freaks them out lol
then i just laugh and walk away. but yea its not like a stare down fuck you contest lol

just practice it and itll be automaticly itll also help make you more confident since its part of body language.

_________________
my stories and tips and all the random shits
http://poypickup.tumblr.com/

you NEED to take a drug called Isotretinoin. it also goes by the name accutane, roaccutane, oratane etc etc.

i have been on it for the past 2 years and it will make your skin perfect. here in New Zealand it costs $5 for a 5 month supply. it is the only skin SPAM that will fix your skin.
proactive and all that non prescription stuff is BS and just a scam

having acne is a huge DLV, its like saying "hi, my names kbird, i have poor genes"