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After months of gaming not as hardcore as before it started to click

1. Creating Confidence

What I mean

You have to utilize your strengths, power, uniqueness, and weakness to understand who you truly are.
(Inner Game) The truth about pickup is that the longer your in the game the easier it becomes to consistently hit your goal. Much like any skill you still have to cater to the fact that you won't get the girl every time, but at least you'll get more than you ever did before.

Understanding that you are who you are, and that you are the best out there. I said understand. What do I mean by that is that you must believe and know who you are. You have to be proud of who you are to the fullest degree.

2. Merging to PUA

What I mean

Realize that you are a PUA that you are the Alpha Male. You don't where a PUA hat. You live your life as a PUA. Find your true PUA self not just a method. Find the methods that create your unique pickup. Followers are losers. Why you ask because they are not Alpha Male. If your not an Alpha use PUA to change your life like I did.

3. Confidence to an exotic level
(Important)
What I mean

You must be confident in yourself. Plain and Simple. You must believe 90% to 100% that things are going to go your way because of who you are! Why I say this is if you do not learn this skill then what I am about to show you will not work.

3.A Abundance

What I mean

Abundance gives you confidence whether it is real abundance or perceived. Real abundance is when you have multitudes of options in women. Perceived abundance is when you may not have the women, but you have the skills to acquire more, and know that you can always find someone new.

4. Flipping the Switch

What I mean

Understanding your emotions being able to flip them at the drop of a pen. How do you do that? Look up NLP and creating and disassociating states. By managing your emotions your success in life and love will increase greatly. How to do that train yourself to battle any negative emotion. (Important what I am about to say will only work if you are truly confident in yourself.) Realize that the only reason why negative thoughts and emotions pop up is because you are trying to convince yourself why something is not going to work. Why would you try to convince yourself its not going to work? Because fear, it is always easier to try and say what went wrong then to say what went well if you don't see the results you expect right away. Realize that if you start to let the negative take over you lose your consistency of Self.

5. Consistency of Self

What I mean

Once you get to a point in game you can do it all with ease, but then you start to notice when AFC and PUA collide. That is normally when you have to chose between the PUA self and Actual Self. Now the hardest part of PUA is staying consistent to one side when your brain says don't, but your heart says do. Once you realize that you have a PUA side and an AFC side that is when you have to pick a side. I still battle this fight today. You must realize consistency of anything creates success same thing with Pick Up same thing with sales. Also same thing with school. If you look around what makes someone successful? That is consistent of results at a high level for extended period of time. Back to Pick Up why would a girl lose interest in you? The reason is because you have changed from PUA to AFC and thats boring to her. She realized that the real Alpha male wasn't you that you were just putting up an Alpha male mask.

Example
Girls all the time say "This guy was so cool when I first met him then he changed after we started dating."
What that means is that most guys can put on a PUA hat, but they can't actually be truly PUA in their minds. PUA is a lifestyle not a hat get the difference.

6.Understanding your why

Remember why you started PUA, and realize that the reason you started is more than likely an insecurity. Find why you are here. Once you know your why prove to yourself that it doesn't matter you can still be the person you want to be or you already are the person that you want to be.

7.Assume the fuck

What I Mean

A champion never believes he is not going to win even win the odds are against him. Always have the mindset of you are the prize, and that she is winning by being with you. You need this if you want to get any where with girls.

8.Expectation of the Girl

What I mean

Have the girls expectation be in line with what you are trying to do. If you are trying to fuck her for one night always put that out there. Now make sure that you are consistent with your self with what you say. If you tell a girl that you wanna fuck her after 1 minute of meeting her, and it comes out of the blue then she will think that this guy is weird when ever your personality switches. She should know what she is in for!!! Before the last minute.


9.High level Attraction Building

What I mean

Combining rapport with kinoing and DHVing/Sexual Attraction building. Rapport is always important, but you must remember high rapport with low attraction = Friend Zone. High attraction with low rapport = buyers remorse. Kino = Comfort + attraction. If you get sexually touched by a girl won't you feel more attracted to her. Micro Rapid escalation, Eye Contact, Sexual Intent, and Isolation.(Refer to previous post) When I talk about DHVing I mean using your experiences in PUA to DHV. Not ROUTINES from other people!

10.Closing of the girl

What I mean
(To Be continued in another post)

So far I can really relate to it myself. My beliefs about women and about myself have changed. I am confident, and I feel a stronger self. I had pretty big struggles myself but always told myself to NOT quit and keep going. It has made me more attractive and I notice the difference.

The struggle I have now is that I am totally different than 90% of my friends. They don't know how attraction works or believe the things that society wants us to believe. I am not sure wether to search further or keep them as friends.

Anyway, good post!

Wallie

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Waiting for your take on closing.

Bring it fast, please! =)

This isn't always easy to do but, when it happens you feel like a caveman that can just do whatever. You'll feel awesome and everyone around you will feel it too.
I always think that once I make out with a woman, I can sleep with her. Since kissing is much more intimate, the level of compliance to me is above letting her bounce on my dick all night. If you can makeout with her, she is in the bag usually.



I battle this a lot. Since Im usually very bold in person, I have to stay that way in text to remain congruent. I fight AFC back and just fire off some inapropriate stuff.
Of course. We already made out, now I just gotta get her home.

I do get buyers remorse more than I'd like but, probably because I'm better at arousing her than building rapport.

Great post Ziffer.

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Just a question have you read the previous post of this thread they are all linked together you will see my progression through game also you should be able to see the mentality change, but if you truly want to understand the pointers I am putting here then you must read the previous post.

All good things come in time. I am waiting for when I am in the right state to put it up. Plus I am full time running a business soo... obviously I am busy lol I can promise you soon though.