Hey guys so I was reading another poster's approach through FB msging in another thread (Thank you btw for sharing your successful methods)


So I met this HB through a friend a year ago. I saw her on my recommended list, I added her. After I added her, I waited a day and then messaged her:

ME: Hey there, not be random but we spoke to each other last saturday , right?

HB: no we didnt, but I remember meeting you through Sean

Wht should I say next? I'll wait a day and then respond back.

Thanks again for your feedback and god dam, my friend told me of this site, I've learned so much but need to apply such theories in real life :p

bro that response tells you it wasnt time to add her or message her yet in my opinion, you should have waited a bit, maybe next time you see her you talk a little more to her in person and then add her on FB.

something i usually do is either wait for the girl to ask me to add her, wich takes a while, sometimes even after having sex with her, so you should have a lot of patience and honestly dont give a fuck about facebook.
the other thing i do is come up with something funny about something that happened when we met on person. for example, a month ago i met this super cute girl, friend with a college classmate of mine, and we whent to a club, i lost them, and my friend and i left. the next day i had like 10 messages from my classmate, so i messaged the cute girl asking her how did they get home and stuff, toled her about the silly voice message her friend had left me, we had a laugh, that kinda stuff.

right now you have shown that girl a lot of interest, so i would suggest you to calibrate. what you should say next depends entierly on how the face to face interaction went so i cant be really specific. if you want i could help you further but you should tell us more about the face to face situation.

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Hey Owen,

Thanks for your output!! I didn't really make a move on her last time in person. It's been over a year. But she's a 9 for sure lol.. but I'm trying work it back so that we can at least potentially exchange #s and then take it from there .

I need to establish myself to her which implies my worth to her right?

wait, its been a year since last time you contacted with her?

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Yeah it's been over a hear, but she kinda knows who I am if that makes any sense...

do you have any funny experiences in wich she was involved too?

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To be honest with you bro, no not really, am i out of luck with this HB?

its gonna be fucking hard bro.

you should definitely lighten the conversation up.

be like

oh really? dude i spoke to a girl just like you the other day. you have a secret twin out there

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