I got into a fight with this girl im dating. I was out drinking and she texted something that really pissed me off.
I flipped out ( I know i shouldn't have, but it is what it is), because i felt disrespected.
She then called me saying she was just being silly and didn't really mean it.
While on the phone with her drunk, I said some mean stuff (AFC shit) and i lost my control.
She said she hates it when I get angry at her because its terrifying.
I then said I'm sorry and called it a night.

So what should I do now?
Should I apologize to her or no?
I have to take her to formal in 2 days so something has to happen by then.
Thanks

Ofcourse you should fucking apologize what the hell is wrong with you ?

This is common fucking sense. You go balls out on her cuz you can't control your drunk ass and now you're in doubt weather you should apologize ?



Seriously...what the fuck ?

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What should you be apologizing for? What did you do wrong? Nothing.

I'm a guy who's all for apologies, but in this case, none is warranted and required.

As for fighting and arguing, I'm here to squash this myth of the community which is that Alphas don't argue with women.

Bullshit!

Pussies don't argue with women.

Fighting, arguing and conflict are like adrenaline for women! They love it!

Every now and then, a guy should give a girl a good cussing out and verbal blasting.

The concept that men shouldn't argue with women and it makes them look weak is utter bullshit!

I usually instigate fights with women because I know that they need it and crave it.

Classic case of why nice guys finish last is that they never argue with women nor disrespect them, thus the HB loses attraction.

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I totally agree with R.C.. Jeesh.

(and I don't agree with Kenny. What he writes is absolutely dysfunctional.).

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Will telling her “I'm sorry” make her more attracted to you? No. What about "I love you" or blowing up her phone after you two have gone on a break?

You're looking at this from a logical point of view and not an emotional one. That's how we men look at everything. Women use logic as more a means of rationalizing things than a decision-making process.

An apology will not lead her to think, "Oh, he said sorry, so I am going to be attracted to him."

If you want to keep her, you can’t be afraid to lose her.

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This isn't right. It has been shown through studies after studies that resentment in a couple is the beginning of the end. See Dr John Gottman's work. Saying sorry is a repair attempt that helps heal resentment. Attraction is not a main factor in relationship success.

Yeap. Gottman is the man. PUA techniques don't work once you've gotten into a relationship - how can it when its always about power dynamics and healthy relationships are more egalitarian than anything else?!?

I seriously can't believe this. What the fuck does that have to do with attraction ?

I swear some of you guys are taking this 'ME ALPHA , ME NEVER APOLOGIZE' soooooooooooo sooo far.

Like I said before , this is common sense .

"A man does whatever the fuck he wants but he RECOGNIZES THE CONSEQUENCES. "

If you fuck up , you're supposed to be a fucking man and take fucking responsability for your actions.Please leave the "I DIDN'T DO NOTHING WRONG. I'M NOT APOLOGIZING BECAUSE I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING.IT'S YOUR FAULT." to the women. That's their trademark. Don't be a lill' bitch like that.



This goes beyond PUA. This is about integrity and having character. If you think you can be a PUA , or even a man for that matter without those qualities , then good luck. You're on the highway to failure.


But hey , dafuq do I know ? Go ahead and never apologize when you're being an idiot. It's not like anyone will ever respect you for it. People will love you if you try to pretend it never happened till it goes away.Run away from your problems. That always works out so well for everyone.

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See, I took that to mean your gf was trying to get your goat, she did, and you were asking if you should apologize for losing your cool after the fact.

If you blew your top and it was unwarranted and out of line, then absolutely, apology is the way to go. I don't operate as a caveman and I don't expect anyone else to, either.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

This.

And dafuq should be adopted in everyone's discourse.