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I seem to stomp it out but it returns every now and then. I know better but it just like a biological reaction and it comes randomly. Probably has to do with the fact that I have inadvertently hooked up with girls with boyfriends when I was single and that I also know that anything can happen when there is alcohol involved. My girlfriend is going to a bar with her girls but there is always a hint of jealousy whenever I think about it. The problem is that she might have been invited by one of my friends who has hooked up with one of my past flings/girlfriend whatever it was a week after I broke up with her. It is like dejavu all over again. I don't mind when she is with other guys but since I know this guy personally and know that he has tendencies to act out...then that what gets to me. I think I will be alright, might have just needed to blow off some steam here.

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I rest assured knowing that if a girl cheats on me, then it would be the end. Everything happens for a reason. Cheating is a way of calling it quits.

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I rest assured knowing that if a girl cheats on me, then it would be the end. Everything happens for a reason. Cheating is a way of calling it quits.


Sucks though, does it not? Like, you invest in something, and it doesn't go your way, boom. On to the next one. Ah, well. It is the way of the PUA.

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Dude,

Your not the ONLY one :( . That go's on in my head all the time, at the moment my girls at the OTHER end of the country for two weeks

( even im thinking should i go out clubbing etc n get with someone, since she prob will? )

Just letting you know its normal bro, we just needa find a way but how? mmmmm

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Dude,

Your not the ONLY one :( . That go's on in my head all the time, at the moment my girls at the OTHER end of the country for two weeks

( even im thinking should i go out clubbing etc n get with someone, since she prob will? )

Just letting you know its normal bro, we just needa find a way but how? mmmmm

Jealousy will always be there. You just have to be highly aware of yourself to not let it influence your behavior and your actions. It is especially harder when dealing with quality women, if it was some other bimbo, I wouldn't care. I believe you should make it a habit to detach yourself daily by keeping yourself busy with the purpose (whatever that is that you want) in your life. Having a relationship with your purpose is far more satisfying and will alleviate a lot of these problems and you will become naturally attractive to women.

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I seem to stomp it out but it returns every now and then. I know better but it just like a biological reaction and it comes randomly. Probably has to do with the fact that I have inadvertently hooked up with girls with boyfriends when I was single and that I also know that anything can happen when there is alcohol involved. My girlfriend is going to a bar with her girls but there is always a hint of jealousy whenever I think about it. The problem is that she might have been invited by one of my friends who has hooked up with one of my past flings/girlfriend whatever it was a week after I broke up with her. It is like dejavu all over again. I don't mind when she is with other guys but since I know this guy personally and know that he has tendencies to act out...then that what gets to me. I think I will be alright, might have just needed to blow off some steam here.

Everything is so much easier when you are single...


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Its kind of unconventional but Tyler recommended students suggest their gf hookup with other guys. See what happens. I think freedom from outcome is a must. I saw a pretty girl with her bf. I smiled and she kept looking back. Her bf pulled her in close and got angry but, it goes to show men are interested. If they fight how does she get him back? Likely hookup with a guy or make him think she might or did. A better poker face is needed.


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