I have a distance relationship for like 2 months now, we spent 2 weeks togheter in europe and she left in us where she lives, everything was awesome but for a few days she is not so responding to my txt msg, she is pretty busy with her new job, but she was the one inloved with me and i don't now what to do i really really need her and i think that she is the one. Need some advice to have the upper hand in this relationship. thx

This should be posted in relationships.

You are 100% AFC. Pretty scary in fact. Jesus man. You really, really NEED her? Are you sure you don't really, really, really, really need her?

If you actually want the upper hand then stop thinking she is the one and stop being needy. Realize that she is just another one and be interesting, intriguing, and funny.

Well the fact is that at the beggining she was more into me than i was than i started to know her better, i fell in love an we get along awesome never felt like that with a women in my life and im 32 and she is 31

That's normal. Many guys willingly give girls their balls when they get in a relationship. Take them back. That's how you will win her.

It's fine to be in love. It's fine to have huge feelings for a girl. That's great. That's a huge difference from being needy or needing her. Girls don't like neediness. You don't need to be aloof or distant, but you need to keep her interested. You have to be twice as fun and interesting because now she is around other guys all the time, so you are competing with guys who she can see and touch.

Really, step up your game.

Live your own life, stop making her the end all be all particularly for someone you hardly know.