Shit that is brilliant. Seriously. This is SUCH a good idea to give to a girl. I mean, if you want her to just work herself into a frenzy over you. I'm going to go out and buy a bunch of journals to give to girls.

Today she messages me saying sorry I've been abroad staying at one of her friends. I think I'm going to just ignore these message but how do I play it off, if she asks just say I'm busy or reply with a simple ok and that's it, cos I think blatantly ignoring shows I'm annoyed whereas as an ok will leave her wondering, so long as I leave it as an ok. What do you think?

Something simple like, "that's cool." Or "great" usually do the trick.

So guys it progressed and she's been talking about marriage and our future and stuff like that. I'm all cool with that. Anyway today she's on her period and asks me if she checks my phone will she see anything bad I tell her no and if I'm seeing anyone else I tell her no obviously. Then she checked my Instagram and she sees a friend of hers has liked and commented on my pictures and she's saying how this girl is trouble and she doesn't think I should know her and she wants me to think about things in a mature way and if I'm going to be like this we shouldn't continue seeing each other.

The truth is, I met this girl when me and the current girlfriend had broken up, just for a dinner. They both went to the same school so I didnt know if they knew each other. All I did was have dinner with her and that's that, wasn't interested and never met up with the girl again. The current girlfriend does not know this. How do I deal with it? Go out all guns blazing or just play it cool and try not to make a big fuss about it. I very much doubt my current girlfriend will mention this to that girl since she told me if I ever mentioned her name to the other girl she would kill me! Not literally but you get the point

Checking phone, checking email, checking social networks? RED FLAG!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

insecure weirdo, she will bounce as soon as some dude with higher status than you comes along because she needs that validation. NEXT.

This is probably half correct. She is probably insecure. She probably won't bounce, but letting a girl start talking about marriage is BAD. YOU DECIDE. You don't let a girl walk you into marriage. That is Beta and you will pay for it, and pay and pay and pay.

Control the interaction. She can hint, but make it clear that you have a life and only when you are sure that this is the girl you are insanely in love with will you decide to tie yourself down.

I'm just saying that this guy will marry this girl. And he will get used badly. I really hope that this won't happen though.
Leave this disrespectful bitch mate. NOW.

Well guys, here is an interesting conclusion

About 2 weeks ago i phoned her up, she was acting coy and every, could just tell the way her voice was then she told me shes buying bikinis. Hear nothing from her for like 4 days and she says sorry I was in Jeddah, a part of saudi arabia staying at a friends. im like ok this is weird, if your staying at a friends youll have access to your wifi so you can for sure check your phone. when shes back shes like i really really wan to meet your parents. Anyway, fast forward a bit and I check her instagram account, its private and I see a profile pic of her in paradise. Im like wtf that sure as hell dont look like jeddah, but maybe its an old pic. Then i get the call from her talking shit about marriage, how much she misses me, what will happen to us in 2 years etc etc, asking if i love her all that shit. then the other day she gets super jealous, wants to check my phone, my instagram and finds something wrong, that other girl. My friend told me that if someone is trying to find something wrong with you it means THEY have done something wrong and they are looking for a reason to blame you. since that time shes always been insinuating that i have stuff to hide, i dont deserve her to be nice to me etc etc how i must behave.

Then i check her facebook profile, she was dumb enough to change it to her in paradise, with the comment that an angel took a pic for her, referring to HIM. Im not friends on her facebook and it is totally private but for some reason the comments on her pic came up

So its obvious when she went silent she was on holiday with a guy, she asked me about the flights like 1 month ago, saying a friend was going there and the sick thing is, she gave me a bottle of alcohol that she obviously bought there for me to look after. SInce her FB is on lockdown it seems she would have chosen to deliberately make the picture public, so i guess she wanted me to find out.....

Now the comment about a guy whisking her off to paradise all makes sense.

What a bitch.

Im gonna be composed collect my stuff and thats it.

Well analysis pleaese......

I guess this girl liked me, but not enough and couldnt feel bad about breaking up with me so wanted me to do it, the odd thing is, we planned to go to the cinema today just yesterday