Okay, so ill keep this short, but I was stuck on this HB8 for a long time. I still am. Crap went south and she never wants to speak to me again. I miss her very much and do have oneitis I guess. It sucks 1) because she can get any dude she wants and has a history of doing so when shes not in a relationship 2) Im in a college town and only very young people go to bars here and I lost many of my friends bc of this relationship. I really dont know what I need to do. Its so easy to say suck it up and go make new friends, but that isnt easy for me to actually do right now. Im not a very outgoing person

Work on yourself. Read posts here, read books, work on your inner game. Focus on improving yourself. If you don't want to go make new guy friends, then go make nooky with other women. Get in the game. Push yourself. You're going to get rejected, fall flat on your face, but you'll learn from every experience if you want to, and when you start to see the fruits of your efforts in the form of some successes you'll find out that by the time that happens this HB8 is the last thing on your mind. Think about yourself, not someone else.

Thankyou. Exactly what I needed right now