I am not sure if I am doing it right, but everytime I am trying to DHV, the girl body language tells me she is bored. So I calibrate by Negging her and teasing her, but she just laughed a little and goes back to the bored mood. I need help!!!

My second issue is that, the girl seems intrigued and attracted, then I number closed successfully. However when I text her, she flaked. Or when I facebook closed I feel time is not on my side because of work, and she even gave me her email. As soon as I add her on facebook, she blocked me out totally!

i avoid boring them in a few different ways, like whenever i am making delivering a DHV spike i touch their arm in a casual way while having eye contact and a smile. Subconsciously they wont want to break that connection so theyll pay attention and even start interacting. this is enough to keep most girls interested especially if you have a funny/interesting story. Girls will respond to a good energy, eye contact, and kino.

On to the second problem, girls will flake because after you leave, that emotional connection is severed and she will realise that youre just another guy in her life. so instead of going for the number, go for the date right there and then, say what youre doing the next day and tell her that she should tag along. then what i like to do is i like to get the number, then dial it right infront of her and start talking on the phone to her when she can still see me. Then i turn around and walk off while still being on the phone with her. That way the she can feel the emotional connection even when she cant see you and the first phone call is out of the way so you can call her again easier.

`Feather

Be more interesting.

Example:

Me: What do you do?
Her: I work in IT
Me: Come on, you're lying. Where are you glasses with the tape on them, and the little pocket protector? Actually, you're not even wearing a button up shirt. You're not in IT? What do you really do? Are you a globe trotting spy?
Her: Some stupid answer trying to convince me she is in IT
Me: No, it's impossible, you must be a man.
Her: Some other answer.
Me: That reminds me of funny guy I knew who worked in IT. [I then go on to tell a story about a guy who mixed up a girl telling her that she used to be a man as he heard that she was from Iran (stolen from the IT Crowd).
Her: Laughing and looking at me with those sheep eyes

I also like Feather's answer. I also like to give the girl my phone and make her text herself something sexy. I say, "here, put your phone number in. Now send yourself a text from me." She'll write something stupid, like hi, then I'll say, "no, that's boring. Write something about how hot you think you are." Then when you follow up you can make fun of her for being so conceded.

Write it on your hand: Don't be boring.

Thanks alot, I will work on that. As I always go indirect, I always show that I have no interest in them, and I gauge based on their IOIs and body langauge to choose to whether number close or not. And when I number close, I said
Me: Do you text?
Her:yeah
Me: Ok, put your contact in my phone
Her: Ok sure
Exchange phone and key in number.
Usually, I didnt compliment her at all even until number closing, so by saying going on the date the next day wouldnt be wierd without complimenting her at the end? So should I say she is interesting or whatsoever and use body langauge to potray my interest, then number close her successfully, then ask for the date?

So should i do like
Me: Hey do you text?
Her: Yeah
Me: I think you are a interesting and cute, so key in your number in my phone
Her: Ok
Exchange phone and key in number.
I will call her and ask her to answer the phone infront of me. She answer and I walked away.
Me(on phone): Hey this week(just to be safe that she is not free tmr) I am having my last week of holiday before school start, so which day are you free?
Her: I free on blah blah blah
Me: Sure, lets hang out on blah blah blah.

Like that?

I think the smsing part is interesting, really thanks alot I will work on that part of it I would write on my hand dont be boring, then talk to her abit, then show her the message on my hand, and ask if it is working well? lol

Or even better, write something on your hand like cookies, really big, then scratch your face, or whatever, so she notices. Then when she asks about it make up a story on the spot.

Asking her if you're being interesting is validation seeking.

Also, on your other comment, I wouldn't compliment her. Why would you?

Oh haha, great idea, shall try that tomorrow, kind of like in your face peacocking emm but without complimenting her and asking her out on a date isnt it wierd? Shouldnt i at least says I think you are interesting and we should hang out?

I tend to favor the I like your style comment. Then say you are on your way to do something and would like to get together later for a drink. Have your phone ready and have her put in her number for the text and such.

I like more indirect compliments, rather than complimenting her on things she has little control of, compliment things she's done (if you want to compliment that is).

I was chatting with a girl the other day that said the most interesting thing. She said, "I hate it when guys tell me I'm pretty. Every guy says that I'm hot, beautiful, or pretty". Then she went on and said, "I'm tired of that, I just want a guy who wants to stay with me."

She's an extremely hot girl and she is single.

The best thing guys can do is realize that 90% of hot girls are very insecure. They are single and want to feel attraction and want to fall in love. Attraction and pick up are just ways to jump start that process.