I've been seeing this girl for the past 3 weeks. It started really well, when I opened her in a club after strong ioi's from her. She said she wanted to see me again and was the one who initiated the texting and the first meet-up the next day. Since then we have meet 4 times (2 resulting in sex) and have texted each other everyday (bar one day at the beginning of the relationship). It was usually her that initiated conversation, and I would often not respond straight away and she would send several messages in a row. However, I ran into a problem at the weekend. She text me on Saturday morning asking how my meal was the night before? I replied and asked her how the show she went to was, and she replied randomly - that she was hurt I didn't visit her in work (as we had joked about it before on dates). Then on in the day I replied a few more times, and eventually saying we should rendezvous later in the night, and I could tell she wasn't up for it - because of the statement answers. So I left it, but she text me twice to ask where I was going that night? I replied back, and it turned out she was where I was heading anyway, so I seen her in the bar and we merged into the group of her friends. However, I could tell the vibe I got with her wasn't as strong as before (i.e. less strong ioi's - hair twirling and eye-contact, and she didn't ask about me as much). We were heading to a club, and she was heading to another bar before heading home with her girlfriend who was staying the night with her. She said they weren't going to a club, even though I told her we had guest list. I wasn't going to push it. I told her to text me when she got home because that's what she did with me (even though I waited for her to ask me usually). I got home much later that night, and said I just got home, but she missed a fun night out at club and casino. Got up next day - no response to that statement, even though before she would have. Now been a whole day without messaging, when normally she would text me something.

My question is has she lost attraction?
Did I become too boring/predictable? (I know I didn't use enough push/pull)
Can it be turned around, we talked about where we wanted relationship to go and she was keen to make it something more (which I wasn't opposed to either)
Should I text her something later tonight asking how she is and that we should meet up on Wednesday for drinks? Or would that seem like to easy a challenge.
She is attractive and I feel if I don't act soon, I will lose her for good (if not already)

Please can you help and advise, I really fed-up of f#cking up with girls and losing attraction 3-4 weeks into relationships.

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Gaming is a part of life! I realise that now! It affects almost everything you do...

You posted under "Relationship"? This isn't a fucking relationship, you've only met like 5 times and had sex twice!

But now she is becoming a high priority? Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.

If you think about it for a second, how can a man be completely in love with a woman that he’s just met? And even if you dated her a few times, you hardly even know her. That’s exactly what women think about needy men. “He doesn't even know me… Why does he call/message me so much? He must be some loser”.

Your showing neediness, Showing neediness only makes women like you less. So if a girl starts losing interest in you, behaving needy is not the solution.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

i hate to be the barer of bad news but it does sound like she lost attraction for you. move on. you can do better than her anyway you study social engineering for crying out loud.

- You really need to move on man. Don’t waste your time for some girls like her. You deserve a lot more, and I know you find someone that is really meant for you.