only had the internet back a few weeks, so made a account on pof, we all know its a crap site. but hey i have been away for close to 2 years and need some females in my life.

my profile is on there is jamesRH11 ( cant post url as new)

in the 2 weeks i have been there, had mixed results, from a 18 year old wanting my number, to some hb7 asking me if she passed my tests.

I know it needs work, maybe move bits about, but any feedback is good.

on messages out, im using the old " my oz mate and i are having a bet " line as well as " i would remove that photo "

I also used a auto clicker, helped a bit

what happened to pof?
no more live chat? no more rate photos?

no one for feedback?

Sky diving pics are good but self portraits could do with being less obviously taken by you. Cut your arm out of the photos or get a friend to take pics. As for content, by selecting "looking for a relationship" you are instantly disqualifying any potential casual hookups. Are you sure you're only interested in a long term girlfriend?

Also I would completely cut out the TV/films thing. Unless you find a female film buff, watching TV at the weekend is goingto come across as boring. You only avoid looking boring because of the sky diving pics.

thanks dude

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not into spam, thanks

ok so far replies from auto bot doing maybe on meet me

they are all Uggglllllllllllyyyyyy
all got a reply off:

what? i dont use the meet me option, do i look like i would? its pof trying to get lame people to chat to others and make the site busy.

I'd take out the first part where you say you past the picture test. You're testing them not the other way around. I like the part where you qualify what you like and don't like. Get rid of all the thing's in your interests, no on really looks at them anyway and it seems like you're trying hard.

Get rid of this "If this sounds arrogant it is. Sorry but females are the same.., we all have things we hate and like in a lover/mate and be honest how many females here post " I want a 6ft male so i can wear heals" , really ladies do you wear hears 247 and in bed ? NO as well as all the ladies here post " love a 6 pack in men etc.""
Complaining lowers value.

Try cleaning it up a bit too, it's a bit lengthy. The more you talk the more you're trying to impress.

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thanks mate, well been working aboard for 2 years no net, nothing, only a phone and the place i was in only had a few hookers lol

8 messages, 35 meet me`s and they are all pigs

Seek out the hot ones and message them. The hottest ones basically never message guys first online. If you sit there and wait, you will only get messages from pigs. So since you have no topless, super ripped pics and you don't have a boyband face, you can't just wait for girls to find you and message you, they will all be dogs.

Don't rely on online dating as your only means to meet girls. Get out in the field and think of your POF as a backup to secure a few more dates on the side.

heres today from the meet me part, using the macros from firefox,

nothing above a 3

35 messages

Watch Cajun's guide to online dating on YouTube, its good shit.