So I have been with about 10 girls (relationships + ONS) and they have all been American. Latinas raised in the US, White women raised in the US, and mixed race women raised in the US.

My nationality is American (culturally and such), my heritage is Indian (but people confuse me for persian and latino a lot due to me having olive skin).

A part of me has ALWAYS been crazy for the foreign girls. Mainly European (except for British) and Latin American. Thing is, I grew up in a really conservative town with not a lot of foreigners. My only experience with foreign women was when I was at this international conference which had a lot of female students from France and Italy and Brazil.

I found that Italian women were extremely stuck up and French women were really rude. Brazilian women were somewhat kind.

When it came to American women I felt that I was this exotic piece of the pie. Many of them had not seen an Indian before so to them I was this exotic man. A lot told me that they had never seen many people of my skin color so I was truly someone they could understand.

Now the thing is, I hate that I cannot control who I am attracted to, but here is the issue. I have found that European girls somehow get me going due to their accents. Yet, I find that my ethnic appearance is a major disadvantage since most of them hate men of my skin color due to stereotypes against Arabs (especially in France).

Like I feel to them I am some low class guy just because of my ethnic appearance, it sucks because I am somehow attracted to their accents and cannot help it. Yet I feel that to them I bring nothing to the table and that to them I am already starting out 10 steps behind due to things I cannot change.

What can I do about this?

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Those are just logistical obstacles like being short, bald, or fat. Everyone has them, just their type varies.

you already know the answer: Develop better game and approach more girls.

What you have in the self-help industry is called a self-limiting belief, most of the time this is influenced by low self-esteem. The belief limits you not reality, but the reality you've created.

I highly recommend that you work on your self-limiting beliefs as it is hurting you immensely.

Here is an article I read recently called 6 steps to eliminating limiting beliefs: http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/6-s ... d-beliefs/

I posted up just the meat of it on my website (just the 6 steps), learning how to eliminate limiting beliefs is huge when it comes to success and getting what you want out of life. You may have ones deeper than race such as I'm not good enough, or whatever but you are limiting yourself with the reality you create.

You thinking that it is the girls doesn't make it the girls.

Peace and love,

Vic

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am reading it right now

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.