Do you really want to talk to a guy who doesn't have the balls to talk to you AFTER you've showed signs of interest or threw him a few glances? And if you want to be chased I would say...you need to balance coyness and restraint with clearly showing your interest. Like imagine the guy caught you eye fking him...and then you look shy or embarrassed. Or for him to notice you eye fking him..followed by a distracted gaze. Like something was going through your mind for a brief second. IMO men like to see signs of vulnerability. But it's ultimately the mans job to take action, and there's nothing you can do if he's impotent.

FYI I believe this girl is truly dangerous hahaha. If you were in Boston, I'd love to have a wing like you. This girl want's to conquer the world....

I've noticed you baby.

Come sit on my lap.

I would highly recommend not approaching guys. It's not classy and makes you look desperate. a guy worth having needs to have the courage to approach you. I'm 33 and I'd say since about age 25 I almost always blow off any woman who approaches me.

As a quick side note I hope that the guys reading this take notice; she's calling herself an 8.5 but gets asked for her number several times per week at grocery stores and work. So that's the kind of competition you are up against.

Anyway, keep in mind that some of the more quality guys in the bar/club aren't going to be interested in you even if he's single. It may be as simple as you don't morph in to a look he thinks is cute. you may be too tall, or too short. I'm 6'2 and rarely approach women under 5'5 unless there's nothing else I like but I'm always looking at 5'10ish first. Unless I am extremely bored, a girl could be a 10 in the face but if she doesn't have a slender figure I'm not generally interested in talking. I'd much rather be talking to a 10 body with a 7 face.

I don't like women in bars approaching me and I'm always one of the top players and usually the top in the bar. But I don't think there's anything wrong with women making eye contact or brushing up against me. If a woman sees me before I see her and she's interested, a lot of times they will come stand close or stand by or brush up against me as they walk by and make solid eye contact to make sure I see her. I don't have a problem with that. At that point I will decide if I want to speak or pass on it.

IttyBitty you are treating men like woman, they dont think like that.

Guys are logical, so dont be subtle, what you think is a obvious approach to a normal guy "My heels are killing me" will likely been seen buy the guy a a problem solving opportunity. Forget the subtle gaming and some of the other BL advice, most guys arnt that observant. Also I doubt half the guys hear what you are saying anyways, the guy who told you that your convo made you a 10 was just running good game on you by qualifying you, he probably gave not two shits about what was coming out of your piehole.

Ok so here is how you handle a guy.

You "say something xxx", smile
laugh at whatever he says thats not funny
give him lots of eye contact
keep talking to him about anything when he forgets to speak
give him coy looks
touch him about the arm and back superfluously

eventually he will figure out you like him and take over unless he is beyond redemption.

thats pretty much it, ignore all this subtle shit, guys are very simple. The more casual and clever you attempt to be, the more men you are going to loose with your feminine ambiguity.

I endorse the previous idea of not approaching first. I used to expect to get approached by a girl in my AFC days (now I'm RAFC (reformed AFC, if you're not familiar with the terms), though not PUA, yet). But for some reason after my gaming got improved I found that getting approached can somehow get off-putting, can't tell why, is it because the game has got less challenging?

And as for the specific tips, if you've got your target in line, get away from your pack and/or move to a more approachable location and/or go near him. Let him do his work, you've done yours. That's it. If he doesn't after some time (say 5 minutes, let him prepare the opening and gather up the courage, but not too long), then one of the reasons that has been written above applies. In that case, well, eject. After all, why would you wanna waste time with somebody not being able/willing to get you?

Sorry for the AFCs reading this if you get offended, but this is the reality of life and once you've done your homeworks and get here you'll see why.

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Hey, here's my opinion. I think just wanting the most attractive guy in the room is possibly a needy mindset. Why? Because your making him the center of attention and putting him on a pedastool. Keep in mind if your looking for flings than you'll want the most attractive guy, but if your looking for relationships be careful. Why not look for, not only the most attractive but the greatest personality. Learn to see ppl in the inside not the just outside. Most guys who got it all, aren't worth it. They'll cheat or they'll treat you horrible. I'm sure you know.

Just some wise advice that we all need to hear. For peacocking, I'd say wear what you like but what when it comes to jewelry don't wear the things that every girl wears. Do the opposite. Wear things that are eye catching and that hv stories behind them.

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Pinkfloyd your advice seems right out of Teenbeat magazine, none of what you are saying she is going to do nor would provide a working framework for a normal attractive woman. You are projecting what you wish to be true of woman, not that which is true.

n2thevoid you could be right, but her original post isn't preposterous for a real woman, trying to get answers in "her" situation that are both sincere and knowledgeable in these forums may be foolish considering some of this advice.

Finally to the "I dont like it when girls approach me" guys, please stop. If you are being honest you represent a very small percentage of normal men when dealing with attractive woman. She isnt going to be better off, as a rule, meeting a guy shes interested in by not approaching him.