IF YOU CARE TO READ THIS STORY I THINK YOU MIGHT LEARN A LOT ABOUT DEALING WITH SOLID SOLID 10's FROM MY MISTAKES .

Okay , I'm not an idiot, I have been a big fan of the PUA for a few years and I'm able to pin point where I made mistakes with this girl, but my question to the community is can it be salvaged and what is your advice.

The Story.

I'm a young entrepreneur and I threw a marketing competition in which 50 competed in groups to win. I was in charge of it and later she said that she "realised that she fancied me when she saw how confident I was" (leader of men). Anyway, this girl is a 20 yr old Romanian model, she is FLAWLESS, without question the most attractive girl I have ever been with. As we speak she is in Dubai having a shoot done.

So after the competition she text me saying "I've just finished with my boyfriend" and she asked me "What I was looking for" (shit test) .. I stupidly said "I haven't been in a relationship in 2 years so I'm open to one now" ..I only said that because I felt like it was what she wanted to hear... Anyway we gradually started seeing each other and making out while she stays over at mine and dry humping and I rubbed her pussy through her leggins etc. (BTW she does not put out easily, she didn't sleep with her BOYFRIEND who she was for 3 months at all and she made her first wait over 2 years! I'm probably considered to be a natural when it comes to game because I've slept with 40 - 50 girls before I ever read about the PUA community and I'm only 20 years old so it's not a case of me not knowing how to get laid).

Anyway, this girl is a questioner, she asks EVERY question you can imagine , I'm good at dealing with them in a cocky funny way or avoiding answering them all together, I'm very aware of why she's asking them. But I did tell her I liked her early on (Historically, when I have said this to a girl it has sealed the deal re: a relationship / sex ), she said it back too. Then a week or two later she started showing signs of losing interest, and then she came over we had an awesome night together and then later when we were texting she said she wasn't looking for anything serious but loved spending time with me. I realise what this mean't for me "I don't want anything serious.." is just the start of a longer sentence "I don't want anything serious ... with you".

Two things happened! She left her Facebook on and I'm by no means a creep or anything but knowledge is power. I read her messages, she talks to ALOT of guys, one of the most shocking things was that she hadn't really mentioned me to any of her girl friends but she had mentioned another guy. She actually said within her messages to a friend "I always seem to like the guy who is harder to get".

SO I switched everything up instantly. I started being unavailable, I uploaded a few images of me at nice restaurants with attractive women, I messaged her and told her I didn't feel the same way about her anymore (even though I was crazy about her) and it took about 4-5 days of either blowing her off or being too busy for her for the tables to completely turn. She Flew out to Romania on Monday for a shoot and is now in Dubai... While she has been away she has been calling me , throwing shit tests at me like "How many girls have you kissed since you kissed me.." Which I jokingly answered "459" and then just shut it down. She has been messaging me saying she misses me and has even hand written me a letter from Romania. She tries to call me all the time ( and I'm now often too busy to pick up ) ...MY QUESTION IS THIS:

I'm scared that the minute I tell her I like her or I reciprocate the level of interest she has in me, the same thing will happen as it did previously (she will lose interest) but I want to make her my girlfriend. How do you guys recommend from your knowledge I should play this? OR is it already too messed up!

Thanks!

you need to let things happen naturally. i am a strong believer in natural game and going with the flow of life. if you are trying to hard to convey a message people will pick up on it, its called try-hard. stop thinking so much, shes a normal girl just like the other 40 chicks you banged. just talk to her like you talk to any normal girl and stop thinking so hard before you think yourself crazy! you don't have to be unavailable all the time to get her to like you. if your unavailable all the time how are you ever going to see her anyways. if your life is naturally fun she should fit right into the mix and enjoy your time with her.

Thanks for your advice on this! That's how I want to be. That's how I was before. I was just being me, because "Just being me" has ALWAYS been enough in the past! But it became apparent that she was losing interest in me. Normal girls don't require me to be this unavailable, game playing guy. Normally when I tell a girl I like her she is over the moon, it doesn't cause a loss of interest. I guess you're right. I should just be me more. I think I'm intimidated by her and maybe it comes across subconsciously.

Reading this post, I can guarantee you're going to get super needy if you ever get this girl.

Love your stories. Do you reallly love her? And just want to play with her?

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I don't love her. And no I don't want to play with her man. I'm too busy for that shit.

I've decided to just move on

Ok mate here is the way I see the story. You like this girl. She is pretty and all that which is cool. Now you say that you've slept with quite a few girls so you must have experience.
You say that you need to act in a certain way to get this girl. This will drain a lot of your energies, you can't be yourself and act naturally otherwise she will lose interest. This is bad, because for a while you will be able to keep her, but you will become very needy in a split second once things don't go so well.
So my question is this ? Does she worth it ? Just because she is pretty ? You can easily find a girl who can make you happy and appreciate the way you are.
But also, why would you tell her that you like her ? Did she give you a blowjob ? Did she go out of her way to impress you or something ? If yes then saying to her that you like her should be fine and if she's loosing interest because of that than do you really want a girl like that?
I see that your last post says that you decide to move on. Which is I think the good decision. She is young and attractive with a job that will make her travel around the world. I can see why she is saying that she don't want anything serious.
Also don't check anyones facebook, phone EVER you say knowledge is power. I say the things we don't know about don't hurt.

As for her messaging a lot of guys, get used to it. Any girl who is hot will get bombarded, she isn't fucking all of them.

One of my exes is probably an HB 7.5 face-wise, but her body is a 10. I glanced at her phone screen when she was on Facebook and her inbox had like 67 messages in it, 99% from creeps and losers, but you can't let it bother you or get jealous.

LOL. My advice is, don't tell her. For a girl like that you need to make her addicted to you. If you keep her playing to win you she will convince herself. Also, once you have sex she'll start becoming much more attached. But these games never stop. There is never a point where a man can break down and be a woman and keep an attractive girl. There are just too many interesting guys pursuing them. When her interest level drops, she'll drop you.

Keep playing hard to get and never stop. It's good fun and part of being a man.

Over the last couple day I've been straight up I "too busy" .. I haven't replied to her in two days now . That's a record. Today is the 3rd day and she just dropped me another message on Facebook.

I also did something quite funny!! I called another model I know an got her to write my companies name across her bust. (Covering her nipples). I think uploaded that photo to Facebook saying "Hungover. What happened last night " ... What do you guys think of that??

Be careful not to go too hard on the games.

They're good to make her chase you and maintain attraction through mystery and unavailability, but at some point she is going to think "He's an arsehole" and perhaps that picture you uploaded could provoke that reaction.

Yeah, that's great. Keep playing. It's supposed to be fun. It's cat and mouse. Learn to enjoy it and enjoy it for the rest of your life. The relationship will change over time, but wouldn't it be great if you could be that playful with a beautiful woman for the rest of your life?