Some guys have submissive girlfriends who would do anything he says (at least in the bedroom). Becoming pussy-whipped is the worst nightmare for a man.

Apart from techniques like framing (which I don't really understand), what are the other methods to train women to be submissive?

Please share some sites and materials you guys came across
Would some concrete techniques, alpha males sure can control their women, but I'm not turning into one very soon.

If your talking short term than framing is the way to go.

"Your cute and all that but I like my girls prob a little more adventuresome than you are . I have a feeling you may be a little too goody two shoes for me."

In order for there to be a submissive there must first be a dominant one . Start it early and follow through. It works well take charge and control often and early and you can get a girl to do anything.

I cant even tell you how many times I hear man my boyfriend tried to get me to do that with him for yeas.

Remember the words of one of the best unkown PUA's in the industry Caesar Milan the dog whisperer.

Be a pack leader. and dont reward negative behavior.

Grow a pair. Rather than try to figure out a way to weaken women, why not grow a spine of your own? Those friends with "submissive" girlfriends could be shattering the girls' self-esteem. A good relationship is about equality, so grow up, stop being afraid of women, and maybe they'll want to do things for you because you are a decent human being.

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well, wow. This is... this sure is something.

Maybe I'm misunderstanding. If you're just looking for more dominance play or experimentation in the bedroom than that's fine, as long as she's up for it, but to me it sounds like you want to be in control of her (and not in the consensual BDSM relationship kind of way), which is just abusive, and which you, as a good man, should stay clear of. As DJ said, a relationship is a thing between two conscious, self-aware human beings, with their own needs and personality, and one doesn't own the other.

I just made a post seeking the opposite advice. Being in control is really boring and making the woman submissive is really boring. She answers to you, well that's great, but you will lose interest. It's better to have a little spine in your woman, makes the relationship spicy.

Listen to this advice. It's excellent. If you want her to be submissive, then you need to be dominant. It's like couples dancing.. you need to be the lead in order for her to be the follow. Part of leading well is rewarding the types of behavior you want and not putting up with bad behavior.

/Click the two links at the bottom of my post. you might find them relevant, especially the one about bad behavior.

-Wolf

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Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

Bro, you are confusing being alpha with being a bdsm master. They are very very different. Being an alpha male is one thing, it is a mentality, being dominant in bed is a sexual preference.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Well what I know is that Alpha is naturally associated with dominance, but I'm not equating it with BDSM stuff. I also do not wish to abuse or control my girlfriend. In fact I'm a mild guy and even a little bit wimpy. The relationship didn't go so well and I think it's because of my personality.

What I'm asking is just that I want to train my girlfriend to be more submissive, so she would not start so much drama and I would not be so pussy-whipped. I know it's also about strengthening myself, but at the same time I do want to seek ways to make her become more obedient and respectful to me. This should be good for us both

Then you are not talking about dominance and submission in bed.

Basically you are just talking about her doing what you tell her to. Frankly I would have been happier to help you out if you were talking BDSM than turning someone into a weaker person because of your inability to step up as a man. First off BDSM is not about abuse at all. What you are talking about seems much much worse.

Look around you, how many strong people do you see following a weak leader? About zero? Sure, when money is involved, that can happen, especially if someone is paying your salary. The only moral way to make someone follow you is to be stronger than them and provide what it is she needs psychologically, make her feel safe and stuff. But you cannot just whip someone into submission, she is just gonna hate you for it and end up respecting you less.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

"A man who understands how a woman's mind/body works...and knows how to use a woman until she's used up." I saw it out there from MonkeyBrain http://forums.plentyoffish.com/2958501d ... page3.aspx

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Right. The original poster has an AFC problem. See PUA 101 techniques for solutions.

Sexual submission is more interesting. Some women want it. Some women get really turned on by it. Some fantasize about wanting it but freak out if it gets real. (This seems to be associated with ODing on Harlequin Romances and living in suburbia.)

A good way to test, once you're far enough along for a rough kiss, is to push her against a wall and kiss her hard. If she responds and kisses back, grind into her and manhandle her. If that heats her up, you've got a sub.

When you've found a woman with sub tendencies, have some fun making out with her. Do it any place you can get away with it, any time you feel like it. Don't ask. Just take. Once you're having sex with her, do it the same way - any time you want, anywhere you want, any way you want. She'll be sexually charged up whenever she's with you, not knowing when you're going to take her. Treat her well when you're not fucking her, and like total fuck meat when you are.

Don't overcomplicate this. Elaborate BDSM toys can just get in the way.