Hey guys,

So this girl was real into me and from what i've determined shes a very shy type person..One day we were at a party and met this girl and within roughly 15min she asked to see my phone and proceeded to put her # in it...I was thinking..SCORE!!

I DHV'd really well, was well known and liked at the party, and got her talking..

I had been trying to work on my "Alpha Male" type game and about 2 days later I texted her asking which of these 2 restaurants did she want to go on a date with me at(maybe not too smooth, but im new to the game)..

She said she'll think about it but seemed somewhat flattered..

HERES WHERE I SCREW UP

Saw her in a cafeteria at campus with her friends and me being an idiot stuck on my "Alpha Male" go up and initiate conversation with her friends, kind of interrupting...I began asking her friends where would be the best place to take the girl out to eat..option A or option B..she kinda seemed embarassed and started to blush and when I left..hadn't heard from her since..

A mutual friend told me that she thought I was creepy..

She's prob a HB8 and definitely is into me...but kind of screwed it up..Been about a month+ since then..Ways to get back in???

Dafuq? So you just outright ignored her in front of her friends? That's not the kind of behaviour an alpha puts on. You basically administered a punishment for absolutely no reason. You do that when you ask a girl out to a date, and she invites a bunch of friends. Or you do that when a girl's been ignoring you. Or when she flaked on a date.

No idea how you should recover from this shit. I'd be too embarrassed to even try... Especially now that it's been over a month. I'd just let it go and try to rebuild your reputation by just being friendly and normal to her social circle.

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I didn't ignore her in front of her friends...I talked to her some but really made sure I worked over her friends pretty well..Given the circumstance I probably would have made good friends with her friends if I had never dropped the whole dating aspect on them..

Ive gotten mixed advice on this forum and website from members..From what i've heard is that when a girl you know see's you and makes eye contact, you need to move in..If its a group of friends you engage the friends together and ask them questions and talk to them and win them over..


Luckily I have a mutual friend and i'm taking it as a personal challenge to get this girl back, or atleast try to not look like a creep...I have plenty other girls but need to expand my arsenal of PUA routines/techniques to use in every situation... The way I think of it, the physical attraction was there and strong enough for her to WANT me to have her number, without even asking or hinting for it, I need to get back to that because it's there still..

needing some MPUA advice

Learning's a bitch. It was pretty funny to read, so thanks for that.

Have you tried to initiate anything with her in the past month? A month is a pretty long time to try and reheat a taco. Do you see her from time to time at school?

In any case, definitely don't call or text. You need to run back into her and peak her interest again. It's more or less starting over. Run into her "accidentally". Then do more of what worked before. Just forget about your cafeteria mishap, don't mention it, don't even think about. Act like you haven't though twice about her since and try to use your game, kino, etc to close her.