Hey guys! I have really improved my pua! So, to get this started. I finally started talking to this really cute girl from the gym. I knew I had her the minute I talked to her by the way she talked to me and looked at me. Invited her out for my bday party and her eyes were on me the whole time. Had our first kiss that night. Next day we hang out all day. Did lots of things together in the city and ended our night sitting on the park bench making out. She puts on face book "going to bed with a smile on my face." Then puts up a pic of me and her saying "had an amazing night with this guy." And I was never being the wussie nice guy! Even had her buy me a drink at one time. I mean, I was totally the alpha in the whole relationship. She would check us in on fb for everything we did. Said how much she likes me. Then one day her text began to get short. She puts a post up on fb saying something like "i loved you so much but we no longer can be together, i have been with someone new and we are better together, blah blah blah." me and her had only been talking a couple weeks. Then one day she says she doesn't want to be anything more than friends. I ask if it has anything to do with her ex(they were together four years and he was her first). she says no, and says she doesn't have feelings for me like she should for someone she likes. I'm just thinking "wow." What do you guys think? I think she is probably over her ex but seeks the same strong feelings she had in him with someone else. And if it doesn't match up, she dumps that guy. please help me. This has really made my pua confidence and pride go from sky high, to down low.

Gay. Facebook status says it all. An alpha took your place, or you went into beta provider mode and her meat curtains slammed closed for your "love stick" ! Ha!

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Amazing that a girl told you the truth. And on Facebook for the world to see no less!

Well truth is that you were likely just a rebound to her. It happens. But what can you do now? She's been very disrespectful to you, so all there is for you to do is next her. No choice.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

Well if she had me all over facebook, wouldn't she have a new guy all over it? I haven't seen anything new on her fb. I think its just the whole ex bf of 4 years thing

Well no, maybe she didn't add her new guy to Facebook yet. And why would she make that shit up? That's the kind of thing girls effortlessly try to cover up.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

In retrospect,
1. you should have put your foot down with putting that shit all over FB.
2. never add them to FB.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

stop checking her fb it will only drive you crazy and piss you off if you see something you dont like

You were a rebound, or something happened. Chances are she realized she's not ready for a relationship. Happens all the time when women are getting over someone. Guys do it too. Even if there isn't some other dude, could be she got in, and realized she's not ready, and backed out. Could also be that you screwed up and don't want to admit it. Best thing to do is look back on all of it, and if you think you may have misread something, apply what you've learned next time around.

Good luck.