So I just called this HB 9 I like to see if she was free next wednesday. She said she's with a friend (which I think is legit) and when I told her it was to go on a haunted walk she seemed keen and asked if it was on again. I said the following Friday and she said she could make that but I said I can't do that as I'm going clubbing.

Now I could have potentially done this with her and then gone out afterwards but I thought that by playing it cool would make me seem more alpha amd harder to get. I told her that her friend could come too if she wanted and to let me know, then I ended the call.

However, I'm not sure whether or not to give her a call back in a few days and say that my plans have changed for the Friday and that I can do the walk with her before I go out (She can't come out with me due to working on the Saturday before anyone suggests that!) Or would that seem too desperate? Would I be better off waiting for her to text me again and then try to arrange something?

Cheers

Mr Q

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"If you don't try, you'll never succeed. If you do try, you never fail, simply learn."

There's really no right or wrong way, simply because this is outcome dependent. If you ask again and she agrees to go out this Friday, then of course you did 'good'; but if she says 'no' or is ambiguous about committing to a 'yes' ("I'll get back to you") then again, you did 'bad'.

You can really drive yourself nuts with this if you choose to.

If she's provided the option for Friday, definitely take it as a sign of interest. I may be inclined to let her know that I can in fact do it this Friday, but be sure to tell her as soon as possible out of consideration to her schedule (it looks rude to let her know later rather than sooner as she has a life too). Remember, things are only as big a deal as you make them out to be. Take intiative and ask her out, it's an attractive quality - don't overblow things, simply be non-chalant and you're down to meet up before the evening. If she tells you she already made plans, no biggie, just get her out for some other time (sooner, rather than later).