So I've been out sarging a lot recently and, in my opinion, I have been fairly successful. However, one thing that I have noticed happening often is when I have isolated my target and we are talking she will reference or start talking about an ex boyfriend or her previous relationships. Now personally I don't have a problem talking about these things but I am just looking for answers to find out if it is a bad thing that girls are bringing up old boyfriends or if it has been happening to other guys out there too.

Yes, it's bad. When she remembers you, a girl will instantly remember the feelings she had when she was with you last.

Do you really want her to be remembering her ex or sadness from the breakup when she remembers you?

Cut such threads immediately, change the topic, make it so like it's no big deal because there are SO many more interesting things to be talking about. You two could be having SO much fun together.

That's the guy you want to be remembered as.

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Any ideas why they would bring up their ex boyfriends?

Iv experienced the same thing a lot with women over the years and it depends on how shes talking about her ex, if it is because she still wants him then it is a bad thing and the topic should be cut as soon as possible.

But generally if a girl starts talking to you about her ex and how she was hurt badly or if she has been going with a bunch of AFC chods and she's fed up with all the loser's she keeps meeting then you can use what she's telling you to DHV yourself, Listen to her for a bit find out why the relationship ended if it was because he was DLV and a chod then use the material she's giving you to tell stories demonstrating situations in which you did the exact opposite of what was putting her off her ex. Amog the guy, show you understand her point of view and why she would not want to be with that type of beta guy. You get the picture use the material shes giving you to craft the vessel that's gonna take you inside her.

Also generally if a girls starts talking about her past boy friends and/or her hopes and dreams in life with a guy and how they have not worked out, it is because she is interested. There could be many reason why she's bringing up ex boy friend but as long as its not because she still wants him then its generally sign of interest in my book.