So i was reading some articles on girls with BF's and what to do if you absolutely want said girl. I came across one that said that you shouldn't escalate her because it will make her feel like shit or something along those lines. Now if we are in isolation should i just escalate as normal? Also what are some potential problems i might encounter when i do escalate? Thoughts?

Also should i ask if she is seeing anyone?

My thoughts are you should find another girl. Why do all that work when you can find a horny, single girl that's flattered that you started talking to her in the first place?

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I'm not gonna question the morality behind it. Just remember that if she cheats on him to be with you, she will cheat on you to be with the next guy. As long as the BF is not there and she is all dressed up for the club, she is probably DTF and if you don't do it, some other asshole will. One night with a girl is one thing, just don't go around making a habit of stealing girlfriends for an LTR

Ok this is just simply not true. If she cheats on his boyfriend that could happen for million reasons. Maybe her former relationship was dead ages ago. Maybe the guy who is a needy afc threatens to kill himself if she leaves him. All in all there is something wrong with her relationship right now.

I personally think that it is morally wrong but I've seen so many cases where the girl cheated her bf with a guy who she has been together afterwards. Just don't generalize please.

But to answer OP's question, just act as the girl had no boyfriend. Not escalating because this will make her feel like shit ? I mean WTF ?

Of course there are exceptions, but you are using extreme examples like suicide to illustrate your point, which is far worse than generalising. Girls who cheat have less of a conscience than girls who don't. If you gave a guy the choice between a girl who has cheated before and a girl who has never cheated (where the level of attraction is the same) you'd struggle to find anyone who'd pick the cheater as their next girlfriend. But the OP's question does not address whether he is looking for just a lay or an LTR, so I was digressing in the first instance anyway.

Not true. Unless she's a robot whore that fucks every guy that hits on her, you can't ignore her boyfriend. That said, there's only one true way: To prove you're better than her boyfriend.

There are numerous ways to do this, such as BF destroyers, the Strawman tech, or simply being more alpha male than her boyfriend. All of these ways require countless more hours of work than a single, horny girl as stated earlier.

Also, let's keep the question of morality out of the community completely. We ALL know the reason we're on this site after all. To get laid.

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Morality has no place in this in this thread. So the general conciseness is i should try to prove i am more of a man then her existing bf and then physically escalate if the BF is not there?