Been exclusive with girl for two years.

She recently has been.cold and distant and told me she felt controlled big shocker to.me honestly. I backed off a ton!

She now always asks what am i doing? Where am i at? Were there girls at the bar ? Granted she always asked me this stuff but when i ask these questions in the past i always get these vague answers or the attitude like i am being annoying.

Any tips on the whole topic?

How about a few alpha responses to questions like this that she asks.

Give her a size 12 to the back of the ass and get her out! lol Fuck that man! Why would you want to have to put up with that shit? Tell her shes annoying the piss out of you and if she doesn't stop, you're done.

God I suck at using forums. Hope I did this right


I've had male friends in this situation before. I close friend of mine wasn't allowed to party without his girlfriend (ex-girlfriend now). But SHE could go out whenever she wanted without notice.

I've also had female friends in this situation. Usually the prettier types. They'll go out and flirt with guys. But when their boyfriends goes out they get paranoid and it's like 21 questions with them.

I feel this happens for 2 reasons:

1. she's insecure
2. she's really flirty and KNOWS how girls get when talking to cute guys. So when you (a cute guy?) go out, she pictures a swarm of women.

I hope for the latter reason. 'Cause then you can take it as a compliment.
I'm no alpha. However, as a woman, these would be some infuriating/sexy answers you could give her:
OF COURSE there were girls there. Hot girls? Eh, compared to you? No.
On the phone: What am I doing right now? Hold on (pause...) Sorry this chick's being annoying. (make it seem like they're swarming you. But you're still interested in her)

Hope this helps!

Helps alot actually.... i am hoping its the latter reason because she has told.me before thats exactly why she gets pike that is because she knows how girls arearound me... the insecure part is a for sure she has admitted this...

How would you follow up a response to your example of "eh not compared to you" .. her "so you think they were hot" i usually respond back with i only look at you like that

---How would you follow up a response to your example of "eh not compared to you" .. her "so you think they were hot" i usually respond back with i only look at you like that---

My ideal guy would say some like "Yes. I'm allowed to rate girls." Then explain that she's a 10 so she has nothing to worry about. If she's not a 10 and she knows this, explain that you've been into her for 2 years. She has nothing to worry about.
Insecurities suck but you can't give in. You give an inch and she's gonna take a mile. Next thing you know, shes gonna be reading a fashion magazine one day and stop to ask you, "do you think this chicks hot?"

You say yes: but I don't look like that. You must think I'm ugly.
You say no: why are you lying? Every guy thinks Jessica Alba is hot. What else do you lie about?

It's a lose, lose
Hold your ground!