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 Post subject: How do I game guys?
PostPosted: Fri Mar 22, 2013 10:45 pm 
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Chill with your first thought upon reading the title, I wrote it with the intention of being misleading in a way.

I don't want to 'Game' guys the way I would women as in, Neg, touch, escalate, and k/f-close.

When I say I want to game guys, what I'm really asking is how do I enter a set of guys, engage everyone(Especially the AMOG) and have them befriend me?

I have some cool friends, but for the most time, my friends consist of afcs, football jock betas, and so on. I don't want to get rid of my old friends, but I want to go into a set of dudes who have connections, are up on the social tree, and will help me become a lot more social/popular. Problem is, I know how to game the women who are on top from opening to close, but I don't know how to do the same with men.

I have a nice circle of friends, but I want a guide to going into a set of dudes, becoming the new amog, befriending everyone, and getting to the point where they want to hang out with me instead of the other way around.

I don't just want to be socially savvy with women, I want to gain friends who come from everywhere, from the chess club, football team, basketball team, gamer group, zombie apocalypse experts, preps, etc.

A comprehensive guide to gaming guys for friends will be greatly appreciated.

P.S. None of that "Just talk about sports" BS. If I don't make small talk over lame cliche topics with women to game them, why start now with guys?

A guide should include ways to become the alpha, amoging the amog in set, getting them to want to be your friend, creating the "He is really cool" kind of aura so they will think of you that way, and whatever else you think useful.

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 Post subject: Re: How do I game guys?
PostPosted: Fri Mar 22, 2013 11:14 pm 
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You don't game guys.

Period.

If you want to amog the Amog you have to BE the amog. aka a natural at being the leader. There's no faking it.

Work on your natural and inner game and build up your confidence.

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 Post subject: Re: How do I game guys?
PostPosted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 2:02 am 
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Full-slose with a man: having him help you move furniture.

You don't need men for those connections. Female friends can be better at it.


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 Post subject: Re: How do I game guys?
PostPosted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 8:42 am 
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 Post subject: Re: How do I game guys?
PostPosted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 2:01 pm 
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That's tough. With men, it's either they "accept" you or they don't. There is no middle ground.
They cannot be gamed. And while the idea of being part of an all alpha group; I doubt there's such a thing, since alphas don't need other alphas; is very attractive, it's really a game of chance and luck.
You connect with guys, or you don't. Simple as that. If you try harder once you failed, it's not gonna help, and they're gonna start to dislike you.
Usually men relate to each other. That's why when they eventually start bonding, they have an easier time.
Think about how easily women befriend each other, and how easily they turn against each other. With men, there's the opposite.
So, in regards to your question, men can't be gamed. Just BE YOURSELF.


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 Post subject: Re: How do I game guys?
PostPosted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 8:15 pm 
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That's tough. With men, it's either they "accept" you or they don't. There is no middle ground.
They cannot be gamed. And while the idea of being part of an all alpha group; I doubt there's such a thing, since alphas don't need other alphas; is very attractive, it's really a game of chance and luck.
You connect with guys, or you don't. Simple as that. If you try harder once you failed, it's not gonna help, and they're gonna start to dislike you.
Usually men relate to each other. That's why when they eventually start bonding, they have an easier time.
Think about how easily women befriend each other, and how easily they turn against each other. With men, there's the opposite.
So, in regards to your question, men can't be gamed. Just BE YOURSELF.


Which makes me realize that if you don't make guy friends at a younger age, like high school or college, you're screwed.


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 Post subject: Re: How do I game guys?
PostPosted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 9:31 pm 
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So, in regards to your question, men can't be gamed. Just BE YOURSELF.
I dont have much knowledge about dynamics with the guys, but i dont agree that they cant be gamed. There must be a way! it would just have a completely different structure and has not been explored before.


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 Post subject: Re: How do I game guys?
PostPosted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 11:28 pm 
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I do it all the time. But first let me say, I don't care for your attitude in the original post. You're asking for something that would take a lot of time to write you a manual or whatever you called it and I don't do that for free.

Don't worry about blasting in to some 2 or 3 set of guys and trying to be guy #4 in their group. If that's what you want, talk to the one that's most accessible first.

What type of place are you trying to game these guys at? And what do you want them to do for you? Are you trying to control them and show them you are boss or are you trying to find a good wing man?

A really easy short cut to it in a bar or club is to find a guy you think has some value, or you think your caliber of women could be interested in. point out some girls you like, that you think he might like, and ask him if he knows them. That can be your first question "hey buddy, do you know these girls over there in the mini skirts" When he says no, say, "I wonder if I can get them to talk to me" and go approach them in front of him. When you are finished with them go back to him and start talking about something unrelated to the girls. That will tell him you're probably not gay, and you can approach and entertain women, but that you can talk about more than women. successful guys with women don't want to constantly talk about women.

I'm as good as any playboy in the world and if the right guy did that stunt on me you can bet your ass I'd be interested in hanging out with him some until he started annoying me or his game was just bad.

Now, if you aren't able to do the approaching 2 hot girls at once thing (2 is better for that type of situation than 1 but 1 can work) and entertain them for about 2 to preferably 5 minutes, you may want to run ads on craigslist for plutonic male for male friendship.


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 Post subject: Re: How do I game guys?
PostPosted: Fri Dec 20, 2013 1:39 am 
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I do it all the time. But first let me say, I don't care for your attitude in the original post. You're asking for something that would take a lot of time to write you a manual or whatever you called it and I don't do that for free.

Don't worry about blasting in to some 2 or 3 set of guys and trying to be guy #4 in their group. If that's what you want, talk to the one that's most accessible first.

What type of place are you trying to game these guys at? And what do you want them to do for you? Are you trying to control them and show them you are boss or are you trying to find a good wing man?

A really easy short cut to it in a bar or club is to find a guy you think has some value, or you think your caliber of women could be interested in. point out some girls you like, that you think he might like, and ask him if he knows them. That can be your first question "hey buddy, do you know these girls over there in the mini skirts" When he says no, say, "I wonder if I can get them to talk to me" and go approach them in front of him. When you are finished with them go back to him and start talking about something unrelated to the girls. That will tell him you're probably not gay, and you can approach and entertain women, but that you can talk about more than women. successful guys with women don't want to constantly talk about women.

I'm as good as any playboy in the world and if the right guy did that stunt on me you can bet your ass I'd be interested in hanging out with him some until he started annoying me or his game was just bad.

Now, if you aren't able to do the approaching 2 hot girls at once thing (2 is better for that type of situation than 1 but 1 can work) and entertain them for about 2 to preferably 5 minutes, you may want to run ads on craigslist for plutonic male for male friendship.

I have done this too often and got no results but gay guys messaging me. One even messaged me his a@@hole like I needed to see that. And I live in a small town now.


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