Hey guys thanks for taking the time and reading this I need some advice with this girl.

Basically me and this girl met on St pattys day weekend and spent the day together and had a very good time. We stayed up all night and talked until about 7am things didnt get physical and heres why. She said that her and her ex had been talking and promised each other they wouldnt do anything with anyone else until they were sure they wanted to finish things for good and that they would try and work on things in the summer. As a gentlemen i respected that and didnt go for a kiss to many times but she made it very clear she wanted to kiss me and we cuddled for most of the night. After that day we had been texting daily and we went for a coffee and talked some more we have been connecting very well. Heres the sticky part. She had told me she wasnt sure what she wanted to do as her ex is still fresh in her mind because they do talk even though he had mis treated a few times, and that she really enjoys spending time and talking with me more then she thought. After she had said this i said if she doesnt figure things out after this weekend i didnt want to talk anymore and she said that really sucks and wasnt happy about it but i later said we didnt have to stop talking right away after the weekend but i mentioned i wouldnt wait too much longer.

So my question is do i tell her i dont want to speak until she figures things out with her ex and leave it at that or continue talking to her. Her ex comes down on weekends hes about 3 hours away and she will see him this weekend and she mentioned she thinks she still wont know what she wants to do even after seeing him. Also i asked her 2 other times to hang out but she declined as she was genuinely busy. And for the most part I feel like i start the conversations but its back and forth in general 60/40 me if anything. I really need some help guys shes my perfect 10 and dont want to mess things up with her. Also if i should say i dont want to talk anymore should it be after the weekend or right now. Thanks for any imput

I call bullshit.

Any chick that is into you the right way...will sleep in front of your car on the day of her grandmother's funeral!

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Sadly university begs the differ as she is graduating and doing a masters program and I am in my 3rd year... lol

Here's my criticism..keep an open mind while reading.

I think you ruined any spark when over texting her, texting should only be used to meet up with a girl especially one that you haven't hooked up with yet. Furthermore, it seems like you are friendzoned you must escalate kino and constantly touching her like using your backhand to emphasize points and eventually touch her knee while talking to her without bringing any attention to it. All girls seem to say similar things and in terms of ex's and they all have excuses, but ask yourself this if you truly liked a girl would you be thinking about your ex at that moment? Don't be the guy that she can leave all her baggage to...you're not her gay bestfriend. Those are my two cents.

My friends and I call these witchies.
She's the easiest witchy woman however, since she just wants everything. Take yourself away from her.

Have some self-respect man.
You're in the infatuation stage. You need to take a step back and analyze everything.
You're putting her on a pedestal for no reason.
While doing so, her attraction for you will slowly dwindle.

As I was reading, I liked the hypothetical ultimatum of you not willing to wait.
You're a man of value. You shouldn't have to wait.

If you tell her that, however, don't go back and tell her "Ehh, I changed my mind."

1. Once again, you're not respecting yourself.
2. She will not respect you. She'll know she can fuck with you and it will be okay.

You may say number 2 is not true, but subconsciously she will start fucking up if you keep doing that.

I would suggest to talk to other girls. It will get your mind off of her for a bit and there will be opportunities to let her know you're not standing still.

Don't let the witchy woman dictate her rules.
Don't put any more pressure on her- just cut the attention.

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